Grumpy Old Mixtape

Episode #174-“Return Of The Virgo”

Mrs. Virgo Vixen returns to the set to #sit in for Big Ty. Enjoy as we talk about men crying, Mrs. Virgo’s EP release, and the struggles of parenting

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Duration:: 48m
Broadcast on:: 31 Jul 2024
Audio Format:: mp3

(upbeat music) (upbeat music) (speaking in foreign language) - What up, good people? Big ties once again, not here. He is sick, he is on leave, he is on vacation. I don't know what the fuck he's doing, but we are joined by a very special guest co-host, Miss Virgo Vixen, how are you? How are you this morning, ma'am? - I'm doing great. - It's been a while. - It's been a long time, it's been a minute. - It's been a while, all right. Before we get started, I wanna ask you a question. Men crying, I need a quick opinion. - Okay. - Men crying, go. - Yes. - Yes, good, yes. - Yes, good. - All right. - I have more questions, but you know what? - No, we don't, we don't get into the questions. - I have more questions. - On this episode of "Grompy O, Mix Day." (sings in foreign language) - Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. (audience cheering) - Yes. I would like to welcome y'all to another episode of "Grompy O, Mix Day," by I'm your host, Dove H. And like I said, I am joined by a very special guest co-host has been a while since she's been in here. She is the Virgoist of all Virgo's, Miss Virgo Vixen. - Period. (laughs) - How are you, ma'am? - Man, I'm doing great. - That's good, that's good, but before we get started, make sure you follow us across all social media platforms as "Grompy O, Mix Day" across the board. Be sure to join "Grompy O, TV" on YouTube, rate, like, subscribe, and tell a friend, to tell a friend, to tell one more motherfucker that you're on D, fucking with your goddamn boys. What you been up to? - Relaxing and living life. - What does that entail of? - No more working six and seven days a week. - That's great. - Um, getting lost, yeah. - Get the fuck out, yes. (laughs) - It's been a minute. - You've been worth it, man. - It's been a minute, man. - Yes, yes, yes, yes. - Yeah, it's been a minute. It's so, you know, in preparing for this episode, I went back and listened to some of my old episodes, and I did not realize how long I was working hard as fuck. - Yeah. - Like, it's really been at least two years when you working hard as fuck and being tired as fuck. Like, what the fuck? - So I've just been relaxing, like, just enjoying life, living life, taking plenty of naps. - Yeah, that's good, that's good, all right, all right. - Yeah, um, about crying, you know. You know, I was injured recently. - Did you cry? - I was injured recently, fuck, like injured. - Okay, you really was. - Yeah, I'm still injured, I'm still injured. I'm down for a little, I got business therapy for 15 weeks. Damn, it's only been there a week, maybe two, yeah. Got 15 weeks of that. - Okay. - But, you know, I told the story of the injury or whatnot, you know, and when I tell stories, people say I leave out important parts. Which, I mean, I just tell the story, I don't wanna, you know, stretch it out too much, especially if it ain't nothing funny. But, all right, so, let me go back over the story. Not that I got hurt part, everybody know I got hurt, played basketball, laid out. - Did you know what it is, because, yeah, I know, I know. All right, so, so, people listen to the episode who were involved in it, they be like, you ain't telling everything, you ain't telling how I helped you, you ain't telling how this person helped you, you ain't telling this, you ain't even saying no names. Which, I don't say names, because maybe not everybody wanted no names, right? Maybe nobody don't want their name. - Yeah. - 'Cause this is like-- - Forever. - Yes. - Please be out there, yeah, I get it. - So, but, you know, people complain. You know what, I'm gonna say some names. - Oh. - Yeah, let's go, all right, so, let me go into, all right, now, when I got hurt, I was driving to the, I drove myself, so, I'm driving, so I had to call Miss Monique. So, when she called me back, you know, I didn't tell this part of the story, but I didn't find it being that important. I was like, baby, I hurt myself. Bad, but I wasn't crying, all right? It was just like, god damn, I hurt myself. I'm hurt, I'm injured, baby, help me. In her mind, she's telling everybody I was crying. (laughing) That's how she tells the story. He left out the fact that he was crying. - He called me crying. - I wasn't crying, but anyway, so, apparently I was crying, so, I cried all the way up there. Supposed. - But the injury, I mean-- - It's an injury. - It would be understood if you weren't crying, 'cause that was some real serious shit. - Yes, it was very severe. - You should've cried. - I should've. Now, did a tear form? - Yes. - Tear form, 'cause it was pain. - Okay. - But when I called her, I was not crying. - I let the record state that the debase was not crying. - I was not fucking crying. Have I cried before? Yes, I've cried many a times. For real? Yeah, why not? I'm gonna give a fuck. You, like I said, is many reasons for people to cry, and we're talking about men crying. It's many a reason. We did an episode about this, men talk when we stuck in traffic, a thing called the crying games. Yeah, you need to go back and listen to the crying game. - I do, I'm gonna have to-- - Yeah, we're talking about that. - Yeah. - Okay. (laughing) - So, yeah, you can cry from pain. You can cry from, you know, injuries. You can cry from hurt, confusion, happiness. There's many reasons. I have cried, but once again, I did not cry. - Understood. - But supposedly I did. So I get there, I get there, but they rush me straight to the back. So, all right, everybody like, what the fuck's going on? What happened? It's like I'm shooting basketball. So, I have to get a X-ray. So, shout out to Miss Laura. - Period. - Period. - X-ray tech, the one you think, she helped get the shoe off, 'cause it was stuck, 'cause I couldn't, yeah, 'cause it's like my ankle's not moving. So, when you pull it, you gotta be, you can't just pull it, yeah, it's fucked up. So, she did assist in getting my shoe and sock off. Thank you, Laura. That's number one. - Thank you, Laura. - Thank you, Laura. So, also, thank you. (laughing) They got me in there quick. Got the X-ray, everything was done, boom. Then I had to go get an MRI. So, the medical tech, AJ, she set up everything like boom. Fuck it, he VIP, get him in here. Shout out, AJ. - Thank you, AJ. - Got me right on in there, like, look. No, you're not sitting around, come right up here. - That's right, yeah. - We give you a VIP. Got me in there. Knock that out. So, next day, put me right on the schedule to talk to the doctor. Boom. Shout out, Dr. Massey. - Shout out, Dr. Massey. - Massey, Massey, Massey, Hand Cloud. (laughing) Got me right in there, it's like, look, we gonna get you taken care of tomorrow. So, it happened Tuesday, Wednesday appointment. Thursday, I was operated on. So, shut off for getting me in there. Everybody involved. - Time out. - Time out. - Because I just, the techs that I got was, I'm having surgery today at 1215 at like 11 something. I'm like, what the fuck? What do you mean? - Exactly, this tech said it all. That's how quick it was. - But what I'm saying is, and so I instantly tear it up, like, what the fuck is going on? Was I in LA? - Thank you, word. - That shit fucked up, fucked me up for a minute. I'm looking at the phone like, where the bubbles? What do you mean? What's going on? - I'm in here. - I'm like, wait a minute. Wait a minute, I was very nervous, very prepared, and I was like, what the fuck? And then when I heard, like, damn, again, you need to only walk. - I know. - That's it, walk to a protocol, don't do nothing else. - My door said just walk. - Just walk. - Don't play no basketball, it's too dangerous. - Don't do anything else. - Those are legit words. You can't play basketball because it's too dangerous. You're at a certain age to wear, and not only that, you've had a lot of the most random shit happen to you and your body. - I have, I have, but it is what it is. So they got me taken care of in and out of there. Had my first, my follow up visit, I think it was last week, all the week before, but I had my first follow up visit. Shout out to Amelia. - Thank you, Amelia. - She came, she was like, boom, we taking this off, blood shoot, not my scar. - Ew. - No, let me say nothing blood shoot, not when they took the stitches out, it like kind of like opened back up a little, like. Yeah, yeah, so they had to witness that. So shout out to Amelia. - So like you was sitting down and they was doing this, like your leg was propped up. - I was laying on my stomach in a manly way. In a manly way. - What's the unmanly way, toot it up? - You know unmanly way, you're laying on your stomach. (laughing) - You definitely know unmanly way. - So shout out to Miss Boney and Amelia, they handled that part. (laughing) - Well yeah, man, I just, I felt like I needed to clear all that up. I mean, you know, it was no offense. Not naming names, some people just don't like them. Now, I may say your name, but if I'm saying a name like, I don't know, Tracy's still, you thieving motherfucker. That's because I want everybody to know you're fucking people. You know what I'm saying? So I say names. (laughing) But the people that I feel are important. - That's what it is, that's what it is. - Exactly, it's a spec thing. You may not want your name mentioned. - Yeah. - So I don't take it personal, Miss Laura, 'cause she was the main one, you know? So, but shout out to the whole staff. I'ma see y'all some grumpy old wristband. (laughing) You can remember me as you cutting open another man, Hooky. But yeah, shout out to all of them, man, but I didn't cry. - I understood. So that's the moral of the story, you did not cry. - I did not cry. You, it really-- - I will cry. Yeah, I don't give a fuck. - I cry right now. - I cry the day before yesterday. I'm a cryer. Well, we all know this, I'm-- - Yeah, if you've cried many odd times, you cried from a closet before. - Mm-hmm. (laughing) - I did. - Yes, you did. - Which is wild, because I vividly remember that. - Yeah. - So that, yeah, yeah. - Yeah, so, but yeah. But shout out to them, you know, for real. Shout out to them for helping me get through this. The journey is long, but we're still going. - Yeah, we appreciate it. - Still going, 15 more weeks, or 14 or 13. - You know what I mean, it's a lot of movies. Yeah, man, it's rough, it's rough. But I'm doing good. - Good. - It takes you warm, I'm doing good. - I am, you look good. - Thank you. - I mean, you look good. - It's a little too tall for the scooter, but I mean. (laughing) - I'll be scooting around on that bitch, too. Don't let me be out in the public on it. (laughing) - And they looking at you like, what's wrong? 'Cause it doesn't look like there's anything wrong. - I know, I know. - Little do they know. - It's a whole accident back there. Yeah, it's bad. But we here, we here. - Yeah, we here, we here. All right, what's good with you? What you got, what you got? You see me some stuff you wanted to, felt like you needed to touch on. Oh, wait a minute though. - Yeah. - Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. (laughing) What's up with this song, man? (laughing) What's up with this song? - Okay, so shout out to my cousin, my honest. So for our birthday, this was our plan. - Whole soundtrack. - Oh, we got a fucking E.B. that shit hot. - Oh, soundtrack to the birthday. Wow. - So for her birthday, this is what she wanted to do. She wanted to go to the studio, record some songs. So as y'all know, I reached out to y'all. - Yes. - You know? - I need some beats. - I need some beats, because I can't make a beat. And I know y'all have them in this stash. So I reached out to both of y'all. You did, 'cause one of them we used. And that's the one I want to let you hear, not today. But that's the one I'm going to let you hear. - Sure. - I am not. So we got to the studio, 'cause you know I need some little bit of liquid courage. So we laid the first song down, and it was amazing. But I tell you, shout out to Conner, at Union Recording Studios, because he made a bit sound like... - Shout out Conner. - Conner. Oh yeah, Conner did his thing. - Yeah, Conner. - So we recorded the first song. So we had like five hours of studio time, which included the engineering. It was on like $250. So we went in there, I was nervous as shit, 'cause I can't sing, I can't rap. But I did both. And that shit sounds fucking amazing. Shout out Conner, because... (laughing) So the more we drank, the little bit more... - Better, y'all got it. - Yeah, more comfortable. - Like singing in the shower. - Yeah. So 'cause what happened was, so the plan was to make like just three rap songs. But when we was at Miami House, and she was sick, and I said, wait a minute, so why are you not singing on this track? Like, you can sing a little bit. - Y'all, let me interrupt you. - What? - You sound like you've been doing this for years. Why are you not singing on this track, yo? (laughing) - That's what I said. 'Cause she was just walking around the house singing, and I was like, so why are we not singing it? - Singing on this track. - Exactly. And I was like, if my fucking city girls, if sexy red, if these bitches could make songs, we can make songs. 'Cause they really just talking over the track. They're not rapping or not, they're just talking. We can do this. - We can do this. - Is that what it is, or is it talking over beat? - If the words rhyme, they're rapping. - Get the fuck out of here. - There it is. - Okay. So. (laughing) - I'm a booty-hole brown. - It's a wrap. - Stop it. - Pound-town booty-hole brown. That rhymes. Fucking wrap. (laughing) - Fuck. - And it's a solid, like no skips, like it's a solid. (laughing) It's only three songs, but when I say this, which is fire, no skips. - No skips in order, three songs. - No fucking skips. - No skips. - I love it. I love it. There's no skips, man. That's what you shoot for. - Yeah, I'm very proud of it. - So you about to play it? - I'm not. - No, okay. Now you know for people to be able to sing the words, they got to hear it. - Okay. - All right. - I mean, I'm gonna let you hear. Now I feel like I feel better where I can let you hear it. So. - All right. That was the plan. All right. Well, congratulations on your EP soundtrack to the streets, what the game's been missing. Shout out. (laughing) For those who wanna go back and listen, Ms. Virgo, Vicki, she had her own podcast for her. How long am I gonna? - Three years. I was surprised. - It was three years? - Yeah, 'cause it started February 20th, 2020. - Wow. - I was like, wow. - So it was called Virgo to Hell. Check out some whole episodes. - If you stay petty, episode 30. - All right. What's... - I was petty as fuck. - What the fuck you was talking about? I feel like petty is cool to me. - That was the one, we talk about internet beefs. That one and the one, the one I was listening to on the way here was me, you and Big Ty on the phone, 'cause Tyrone was down and out with his foot. And I had just got out of the hospital. - Oh, yeah, that's when y'all asked us about the croak on me. - Yeah, it was me. - Everybody was catching me in his strokes and shit. I was like, y'all better stop. - So it was that one. It was, I listened to probably like three or four of my episodes, and it was one where... It was the episode after me and my aunt had an episode. So that must have been a dreams one. And I was talking about Jevon and how happy, I like just the pride that you hear my voice talking about my son. I got really emotional. I teared up a little bit like, I am really proud of him. - Now, you know, I got my children older. I got the youngest at two all the way up to, it's old. (laughing) But three, she just served three. I apologize, mellow. She just served three. I actually told my uncle up the day before birthday. So, all right, we was talking about this. Just like, you could be in the same household, get brought up the same way. Have a child, that's a serial killer. Have a child as a doctor. What do you feel accounts for that? Do you feel it's just something in the person? Or you feel at some point you did something wrong? How you feel about that? - You're not gonna raise your children the same. It don't matter if they... Like you might have the same rules and stuff, but you've learned from that first child to the second. So, you do things differently. You react to them differently. You parent differently, 'cause it's a whole learning shit. - But at the end of the day, you're not parenting them to be a serial killer. - No, you're not. That's what the fuck they chose to do with their life. That doesn't have nothing to do with you. That has nothing to do with you. That has nothing to do. That's choices that they made. But like now, even looking at my children now, they were definitely raised different. 'Cause I learned more along the way. Definitely fucked up on some shit and learned, "Oh, let me not do that anymore." 'Cause the way, and it's so funny, because they're like, "Oh, you spoiled Jamil." First of all, I'm tired and I'm older. And some shit I just know, yeah, I fight for real. You learn along the way. Some shit don't require a whole bunch of energy. I don't say what I said. I'm not going back and forth with you. Like, you just learn. You don't raise them differently. - All right, all right, 'cause... - I mean, you do raise them differently. - You do raise them differently. - Like right now, like Mellow, she's three. - And you're an older parent. Think about how young you were with the first set, how old you are with this set. You tired? Some shit don't require as much energy. And no, you've learned and you've changed. You're not the same person. - Yeah, true. - So it's really like... (laughing) I'm pretty sure as plenty times you looked at Mellow and said, "Yeah, just..." - You got it. - Yeah, exactly. See what I'm saying? 'Cause you know, we're not the same. I don't have energy, like so... - It's bad though, but you create a monster. You create a monster like that. - Yeah, but... - But fuck it. - Yeah. 'Cause I'm gonna tell you that. So like, you know, you used to believe in weapons and stuff like that. And then when it comes to Jamele, I'd be like, "I don't even fucking care." Like, are you bleeding? Did you break anything? And now that he's bigger than me, and I'm realizing, "Oh, you should've got more weapons because you clearly need tests of my gangster." - Well, he's what, the third? - He is. - So it's like... - I was tired. - So you basically like be bunking your whole theory. Like, all right, I did something wrong here, and now I'm a fixer here. But then I'm gonna break it again when it gets to the third one. - I don't know, I don't care. - You don't even... - I'm so... - Fuck it. - Like, hear me out. - I love them all, but I'm so sick of like taking care of you. (laughing) I'm so sick. When I say I'm ready to live, like, at this point, I've done all that I can do. I've given you the structure, the boundaries, I've given you everything. - It's up to you to take advantage of the great shit I've taught you as a parent. - This is your life. You choose to fuck it up, that's all you. I don't know what to say. I love you, I love you, and I love you. But, and it's so funny 'cause the other two, they be like, you don't make him do that, you don't make do that, I'm tired. I don't have the energy to be going back and forth arguing, you're either gonna do it or you're not. - So it's just free fall. - Free fall. (laughing) I don't even give a fuck, I don't. - No, God! - But it's like, but that's what all of them do. I think that's more has to do with where I am in my life. Like, shit y'all do don't require my energy. - Yeah, like I said, my two are like, grown grown. - Mm-hmm. - And then there's mellow. So, like, especially with my son, my son. (laughing) He gives me trouble. - He made his own choices. - Yeah, made his own choices. And it's like, I talk to him, talk to him about a month or so ago, and I'm listening to him talk. And I'm like, you still don't get it, you just don't get it. And I, when he was getting into making his choices and they were affecting me, you know, I would tear up and be like, damn, what the fuck? I'm doing basically. Now? - You didn't do anything. - I didn't do shit. - Exactly. - But help give this motherfucker like 70 grand. - See, yeah. - So, I don't know, man. Maybe it's like, I just, all the thing I trust for right now is for, just to wake up and just be like, you know what? I get it now. I don't give a damn how old you is. You can be, you can be, shit, hell yeah, it's 30. - Damn, already? - Yeah. - But as a parent, you can't help to reflect on yourself when your children do things that are disappointing. 'Cause I felt that before and be like, damn, what did I do wrong for this child to do this and act like this? - You didn't do this child. - Yeah, and what have I done for you to feel this way about me like, damn, how bad if I was a parent? But then I was like, fuck that. I was learning too. Like, I'm learning this shit as I go. Nobody tells you how to be a parent. Nobody teaches you, you fuck up the first child. You learn and try to fix it with the next one. It didn't by the time the other one come on, you fucking tired. So, it is what it is. I'm tired. Like, you know, you try to do better, but it's like, nobody, it's no guide to this shit. - No, everybody puts out to do this and say do that. - Exactly. - That shit don't work. - No. - None of that works. It's like, you just do what you can do to make it to the next day. - That's it. - This is, like, one of my coworkers told me, like, their parents told them, like, being a parent is the only job. You don't know if you've done it right until 20 years later. - Wow. - And I was like, exactly. So, thinking about it, it's like, damn, I don't know if I fucked y'all up until later on. - But even, but even sometimes then you can't say that because you can look back and see the things you've done right and see the growth. And then 20 years later they decide, fuck all that. I'ma do this. So, that's not your fault. So, you can't even say that either. - I've been trying to get them all into therapy. Like, y'all need to go, 'cause I was your mom. And I know, and it was a lot of shit I did wrong when I didn't know no better. You need to go day to day to day to day. - Did you drop somebody on the head? Why are you taking so long to answer this question? - 'Cause I'm thinking, no, I never, no, I've never dropped any of them. - Did you slam somebody's head through a window? - I mean, it's like, I'm saying it's like, that's the type of brutality I see where you fuck somebody up. Like, I mean, I don't know, I don't know, y'all know. I mean, sometimes you can let what troubles you leak into them. But at the same, but at the same time, you're still aware and you are trying not to do that. You know what I'm saying? - Yeah. - You're saying, well, I don't know. I don't know, like if anything, I feel like I'm a much better parent now than back then. Aside from that, I don't give a fuck factor. That's because-- - That's like your main parenting skill right there. Right now, that's what you just said. You said your main, what I heard was your, one of your attributes is your parenting skill is not giving a fuck and that's at 95. - At 95? - It's 95, giving a fuck is round about 68. (both laughing) Because it's like, I used to be a helicopter parent. - Oh yeah, that's yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. - So it's definitely evolved in different stages where I was the PTO mom. I was PTO mom, cheerleading coach, T-ball coach, whatever you need, then I elevated to where you going, what you doing, who you coming back, blah, blah, blah. So it's different stages now, I'm like-- - Do what the fuck you want to do, just come back alive. - Where you going with, where you going, what are you doing? Oh, all right, sure, sure, yeah, go. You know, 'cause it's just, I don't know. - I don't know either, I don't know, there's no right or wrong answer. - It is no right or wrong, I just hope y'all don't fuck up and that's really what it is, but that's what anybody just don't make no, you know right from wrong. - Yeah, so when do you be like, at what point do you say you like, you know what, I can't help you right now, I'm not helping you again, far as just shit you should have an order by now. Or is that always gonna be there? - It's hard because I was talking to my daughter the other day and so it was so funny 'cause like, so at one point I realized this little girl is me. Like once I realized she's me, it changed my whole way of interacting with her and talking to her. So you know, we get into it, she'll hang up on me, don't call me for a month, and it'd be the most peaceful month. And then she'll call me back, like it ain't nothing happening. And I'll be like, first of all, you do the same shit. So I was talking to her the other day and I was like, you can get mad at me, fuss at me, yell at me, hang up on my face, you ain't dealing with me no more, whatever, whatever. But at the end of the day, if you were to call me now, saying that you need me and you need me to help you, I'm gonna be there. Like that's the fucked up thing about it, like you was just treating me like shit two weeks ago, but if you need me, I'm gonna be there. Like, and that's how, and she fucking know it, bro. These kids know it. - There they go. - They know that we could treat our parents like shit, but if we need them, they gonna be there. - Know what? - Not to that point where I really don't give a fuck. Because, so this is my thing I tell her, don't make me come up there. And there's no need to elaborate, it's no need to go into it. That's not, don't make me come up there. Don't make me do, don't make me, just. - Act the fool. - Yeah, 'cause you know, it's another part of my life. - Yeah, they know, and like you said, they know it, and they know it from age two. And three, they know it. Like right now, Mellow, she know it. - She do, she probably know from your body, from your tone of voice, not to go no further. - She know it all. - Yeah, they know it all. She sit there, I'll be in a different room for her, from her, and she's crying and whining. You think she's crying and whining. She's making all the noise. You peep around the corner, she's on her phone, like this playing on her phone, whining and crying, acting like she on her phone. - Man, she, man, I don't know, man. - She got you right here. - She tough, she tough. - She got you in the palm of her hand. - You know what I mean? - And she a little girl, oh, she got you ahead. - I mean, but what are you supposed to do? - Nothing. - Exactly, it's like, that's what give me people, like. She got you wrapped around her, duh. What else is she gonna have? (laughs) That's what's supposed to be going on. Oh, nobody be like, oh, shit, damn. You really don't give a fuck. She all outside in the street running around. No, that ain't not work. - It is, what it is. - Just wait 'em, I'm gonna come back, 'cause it's gonna be a wrap. You talk about-- - Wait 'til what come back? - Jordan, I mean, yeah. Wait, wait, man, you just wait. It's a wrap, she about to be horrible. 'Cause go on here and bring her over. - Yeah, bro, if we went to the store the other day, 'cause you know, she did something good, and it was like, we wanna reward her with a toy. We go to the store, you know, I was on the school. - Yeah. (laughs) - She's pushing around, isn't it? No, she don't push me on, 'cause she cheers me on. - Oh, that's so cute. - She's struggling, she's like, "Father, you can do it! "I can do it, Father, good job!" Clapping all kinds of shit. - That is so cute. - She's, she, she, she, she, all right. So we-- - We have a handicap thing on your car. - I know, we're gonna get one, we're gonna ask for one on the next visit. - It is. - So, so we get there, get to the store, go around the store, and each hour we go down. I got that, I got that, I got that. Oh, I got that, I got, I'm like, "Fuck." Damn. (laughs) We, we knew she had a lot of shit, but when you're there and she's pointing out all the shit that she has, and we got it, I'm like, "Damn, that's bad." - It's not, don't look at it like that. Look at it like this. Think about, when you weren't able to get the child and things, your child-- - I was talking about that yesterday. I was talking about that though. - So, if anything, it's a blessing, and it makes you reflect, again, you gotta practice that gratitude, I'm so grateful I'm in a place where I can get my child the things that they want. - Mm-hmm, yeah. - Like I'm like-- - That's true too. - Yeah, so it's like, don't, it's not a bad thing. It's like, I can afford to do the things that I couldn't do before, 'cause I wanna get your middle car. You don't have no license, but I've been thinking about like, I wanna buy him a car, like, I don't, the other two are gonna be mad 'cause I didn't, well, I did get Jevon a car in Jordan's head too, but still like, I want to get him a car, and it's like, I'm so grateful that I can even think about the process of purchasing him, a vehicle, like, 15 years ago, no, I would not even be thinking about that. Like, bitch, you broke my head, you don't, so it's like, you have to think about, I'm in such a better place in life where she can say, I have these things, because my parents work hard for it and afforded it to me, you know? Like, she won't know the struggle. - No, she ain't. - Exactly. - And she gonna tell them people, she gonna tell them people at school, I see, oh, man. - See, yeah, oh, yeah. 'Cause with the fuck, it's a flax, and I got a phone. - And I got a phone. - And I got a phone, like, it's a flax, but, you know, you have to look at it differently. - Yeah, that's true, that's true. - It's a good thing. - It is, it is, but it's like, damn, oh, well. - You know? - Yeah, that's mellow, that's mellow. In my other daughter, you know what I'm talking about, it is what it is, man. She don't listen to the show anyway. (laughing) - Oh, I thought she asked me for help. Like, if a car acts up or whatnot, you know? I'd say, give me a hundred. I'll pay the other three. You just pay me back this and blah, blah, blah. I do it, I don't see it. But in my mind, I got, I'm not gonna see it, you know? If that's in my mind, if she gives me something back, wow, all right, cool. I don't see it, but this particular time, she asked me for $150. I'm like, she just got a new job. I'm like, all right, cool, you know what? I ain't got a hundred and fifty. I got a hundred, but I need this back when you get your check, like you said. All right, I got you, I got you, I still haven't seen it. Now, in my eyes, I'm like, all right, this is the one where you, well, I told you, I needed it back, you say, I'm gonna get my check on this day and you will have it back. You spoke to somebody saying, well, father needs this money back. So I gotta get, I feel if you don't pay me back no other time, you should pay me back that time. - Especially if I say I needed it. - Yes. - And not only that, it's gonna cut off any future assistance. - And it has. - Oh damn, that's gonna hurt. I bet you didn't get it back now. If she listens to the podcast. - If she listens to the podcast. - It's like, that's why I ask when do you just be like, you know what, I can't do it, I can't do it. Because it's like-- - You can't. - 'Cause it's, yes. - You can't. - And then seeing, I'm giving you just two examples. Those are two. - You can't. - It's like, but this time it was like, I need this. But she asked the Mrs. and to the Mrs. and Mrs. Giver, six o'clock in the morning, she got her money back. - Oh, well, hmm. I don't know, man. I don't know, it's just like, that's father, you should give me, you should give me money. - Yeah. - That's what it is. - Let me try out. But then again, well, I don't get shit from my daddy. (laughing) That don't fucking count. But my mother, yeah, I'll give her money back when she helped me. - I don't know, man. - And I help out. - No, no, it's tough, it's tough. - I mean, plus, and they know you. They know you're all salty, they know you're gonna come through again. You gotta not come through like two more times. - Two more times. - Like two more times for her to learn her lesson. You gotta tell her no for two more times. - Do I need to add the reason why I know? Be like, look, no, be like, no. - No, no, no. She knows why. - Nope. - She knows why. - You're right. - Don't even provide any explanation. That was a complete statement. She know why. - Mm-hmm. - It's all right. - All right, man, I agree. - Yeah. - I'm just, you know, like I said, I just, it's pairing the thing is, it's off, this more of a, this more of a Virgo to Hell episode. - It is. - Fuck it, we call this some Virgo to Hell. (laughing) - So, 'cause I wanted to have my children on to see what type of parent I was, you know, which is-- - Then you gonna tell the truth, they gonna be like, just imagine George sitting right here talking about what kind of parent you are. And you be like, you can say whatever you wanna say, what she gonna say. - My mom, you treat my brother as better than me. (laughing) That's the thing she gonna say. She treated, she treated the boys better than she treated me. That's what she gonna say. I know what she gonna say. (laughing) But I mean, it's all right, I'm over it. You ain't over it, you still ringing it up. She wouldn't be on my show. That's not the one I would have. It'd be Javan. - You can't have just the one you know who gonna talk good about you. That's not how this works. - This is how good about-- - Yes, he's been talking about you. - Well, you know what? He also says he's the favorite. 'Cause he's been with me the longest. - So he's gonna get rid of him. - That's what he said. - He's gonna get rid of him and talk good about you. - Well, no, Jamiel thinks I'm a weirdo. So that's what he would say, I'm weird. He thinks I'm a whole weirdo. But I am a weirdo, like-- - Getting wrong being a weirdo. - Nothing wrong with it. - I don't know, man. But that's tough, it's tough, it's tough. 'Cause especially like starting over, you don't remember none of that shit. Like really starting over? Like really? - Oh yeah, you start over for sure. - Some people start over, but this is really starting over. I remember when we walking out the house, we don't have nothing but the baby. No nothing, just no bags, no nothing. I don't know, well, we was just free ball, we just, you was just freestyling out this bitch. (laughing) And that's what I was thinking about like, in order for even Jasmine to come visit, there's so many changes I have to make to my house to make sure it is baby proof, 'cause now she walking and running and shit messing with stuff. - And you know what, that's funny, like with Mel, like we got all the things over the plugs and shit. She's never in her life been over by one. Like we got the things to hold, we got the things to hold up the cabinet shut. - Yeah. - She'll walk by and see it unhooked and she'll hook it back up. (laughing) So it's like none of that shit has never bothered. And I feel like if it's another, if we have another child in here, they would do everything she didn't do. - And that's all, that's all I got for that. You got anything else she would like to have before we get out of here? - Let me see, did I text you anything else? So this lost episode. - Oh, that was the one where you was crying, like a bitch. - Was it, was it, and I'm like, what episode is it? - I said, we were talking, it was what your cousin, she was on, and I said, you were, it's fucked up. You were just talking about stuff and you was like getting a little attitude and I said, damn, is everything all right at home? Just playing? - Mm-hmm. - And boy, that was it. - I need to listen to that. - You went to, I ain't got it no more. - Oh man, where is it? You deleted it? - Yeah, it's gone, it's just, I didn't think I deleted it, but it might be on some SD card somewhere, but yeah, it was bad, it was bad. - That's my other about it. - I'm gonna have to ask her about it 'cause she was sitting right there like, I hope you still recording. (laughing) You crying like a motherfucker, I'm like, shit. And then she's gonna reach across, Pat you on the back, tell me. - Let it out, let it out. (laughing) - I was like, what the fuck? (laughing) She got one hand patting you on the back, and the other hand like, keep the gladness shit. (laughing) - She's out of shit, yeah, I'm gonna ask her. - Ask her about it, I bet she remember it. I bet she remember it 'cause of it. - So, speaking of podcasts, so we were supposed to record an episode while we was down here. Mind you, her shows on hiatus, my show was on hiatus. It really was just some shit for us to do together. So I'm like, well, when we record this episode, what, how are we gonna release it? - Yeah, where is it going? - We have no show, like. - It'll just be there. - We have no show, like, what the fuck? We just doing it for shits and giggles, like. (laughing) And we never recorded, because. - It didn't make no sense. I was thinking about that. - 'Cause I was, 'cause she was like, I guess it's for like content later on. So, if anything, I miss my show. - You miss your show? - I miss my show, like, for real. Like, I ain't gonna lie, so listening, when I was listening to the old episodes yesterday, I was like, yo, I was really fucking good. - People like your show, man. A lot of people like your show. - I miss my show. So we gotta talk, we gotta come back 'cause I miss my show, like. - Well, once we get to $3,000 a month, you can fire that bitch back up, right? - At first, $3,000. - At first, it was $5,000. - Oh yeah, you did. - Yeah, it was $5,000, but like, between three and five, we get to $3,000 a month. - So. - You can have a show, we'll fire that bitch right on us. (laughing) - Wait 'til his EP drop. - That'll get us down. - That'll get us down. - That'll get us down. - That'll get us down. - Oh, man, hey, I got one more. I got one more day. - What's up? - Now, all right, this is like all for all the subjects. - All right. - You're always kind of on them. - All right. - You know, I'm hurt, so I'm not moving. I'm sitting in the recliner leg prop dump. I hear a conversation in the kitchen. This is with Ms. Monique and Ms. Baby Mama. They talking on the phone about me. (laughing) And Ms. Monique said, "Yeah, your baby daddy "that didn't hurt us, sir." I hear her say, "Yeah, you better tell your husband "to sit up and see this ass down." - That's so cute. - This is a conversation. I'm gonna like, and see, and then it ends like this. I love you, I love you too. - Aww. - And I'm sitting there, I'm like, "This is like some bullshit almost." (laughing) - Why is it bullshit? - It's almost, it's like, it's not the bullshit that they relationship, it's the bullshit. They ain't talking about me, that's bullshit. (laughing) Yeah, you better tell your other, you need to sit this old ass down some way. (laughing) - But I talk, I talk with your sis. - I didn't say, like I said, I didn't say anything was wrong with it. It's just, it's him just listening to them talk about me. - Yeah. - It's some bullshit, one day. (laughing) One day we all in here, like, she's here too. We all in the front room just talking. Big tie walks through the door. He looks and just stops, like. - The fuck is going on in here? (laughing) This bullshit gonna go down. (laughing) - Like, wait a minute. - This is not supposed to be happening. - Huh. - But it wasn't that type of part. - It was a little cool, but I just thought that was funny. Just to sit there and just be like. - It's actually really sweet. - I'm just shaking my head like really. Y'all are like really talking and laughing about me. - Yeah. - It's cool. - That's grown up shit. - Oh yeah, that's grown up shit for real. I've never. (laughing) I ain't never been on some other than that. I've never wanted to have that relationship with anyone. Like, it's like, we too. (laughing) - That's the only other episode. - Yeah, yeah. - Oh man. - Oh, funny shit. So, because we was talking about funny things from the episode. Child support. That shit cracked me up. - That shit was funny. - About when he called me a bitch in the courtroom. - That's hilarious, bro. - Funny. - That's hilarious. - When I tell y'all I cracked up all over again. Like, I had never heard these episodes or said these words. That shit was so fucking funny. - That's a lot of shit. - It's like throughout your episodes, once again y'all go back and listen. They still there. Virgo to hell. Sorry, Miss Virgo Vixen. And yours truly. The bike seat to the tensile. - And you made me cry on the episode. - What I told you. - That was what I needed to say. - What I told you. - So it was one episode and you was talking about how you're not going to be as vocal anymore. You're just going to be there. And I started crying. (laughing) 'Cause I was like, the fuck? Like, I really started crying on the episode. And you just like, calm down. Calm down. Like, you really ain't crying. (laughing) I am such a crying baby. And that was funny, like, listening to the interaction, like. - I probably said this shit. Like, you really crying right now? - Yeah, you did. You was like, calm down. The fuck? (laughing) Because all, and it wasn't even nothing to be a motion for. All you said was, I'm about to back up a little bit. It was after I hit this solo episode. And it was like, yeah, you know, you see the direction. I'm going in. And I'm about to, you know, just step from behind the map. I was like, wait, what you mean? Like, the fuck does that mean? And it's been crying. Like, you can just hear me. I hope. - Amen. - It happens, man. It happens. But yeah, go back and check out those episodes. There's some good episodes. You see the evolution of Miss Virgo Vixen from here today. (laughing) 'Cause she started out, she talked about saying names. She didn't want to say no, maybe names. She didn't want to say nothing where nobody can be like, oh, she talking about it. She didn't want to say none of that. And after a while I was like, fuck it. (laughing) Fuck it. - Yeah. - So, but that being said, thank you, Miss Laura. - Thank you, Miss Laura. - Thank you, AJ. - Thank you, AJ. - Thank you, Amelia. - Thank you, Amelia. - Thank you, Dr. Maxie. Dr. Carter. Miss Monique. - Thank you. - Everybody, thank you all for getting me through this. I might send y'all some donuts. (laughing) I'm definitely seeing some grumpy old, grumpy old wristbands. (laughing) Oh, shit. Oh, that's it, man. If you got anything, got anything to other people? - When there's, when there's album release, when there's, when there's album release, when there's, where the album release party gonna be? Where the listening party, where? - So, we have the coordinate 'cause she lives on a, you know, she lives on a west coast. - You can do a virtual one. - You can do a virtual one. You can do a virtual one. - No, fuck that. - I know. I really wanna do, I really wanna do a listening party. I'm not even gonna lie. - We- - You got three songs, dude. - Stop it. It's a fucking EP. (laughing) These motherfuckers coming out with songs that are two minutes long. Our songs are like, look now. - But when they have album release parties. - No skin. - No skips. - No skips on a three song EP. That's good. - No skin. - You ain't got much to do if you skip twice the bitch over. (laughing) - So that's a good point to make no skips is awesome on a three song EP. God dang. And now the 16 song album. - Holy shit. - Oh lord. - And we got stage names and we got an art. We got a name for our group. - Y'all got a name for you. - What's his name? Y'all group. - It ain't ready. I ain't telling you. - Come on, man. I wanna know. Come on. The name of the group. Y'all ready to not let me release the songs on the air. The name of the group. What's your stage name? - Sharice. - What's the name of the group? - Huh. What's the name of the group? - The group. (laughing) - Whatever. (laughing) - Hey, hey, hey. - So if you want to see it on the show, you better not ever tell me. - Oh no. Afterwards, yeah. Afterwards. - I'm gonna say it on the next episode. Tell me not. - No. (laughing) - I won't say it. - I gotta get permission. - I gotta get permission from my teammate. - Just say the name of the group? - Yeah, I gotta get. We a team. - Why you gotta shake your head? - That's what you're saying. - And talk like this. - Because we a team. - We a team. - We a team. - We a team. - We a team. - We a team. (laughing) - You talking like a damn heeshy. We a team. (laughing) - We a team. (laughing) - Oh shit, man. All right, man. Well, once again, I want you all to follow us on all social media platforms. That's grumpy old mixed tape across the board. Be sure to join Grumpy old TV on YouTube. Rate, like, subscribe, tell a friend to tell a friend to tell one more motherfucking at you on D fucking with your goddamn boys. Shut up big time. - Hope you feel better. - I don't know what's wrong. He probably ain't sick. I think I just said that. - Oh damn. - Yeah, try to make it more business-like. But then I fuck all the business-like. I think I just said that. - That was another episode where he was fussing at me about being sick and having me crying on the phone and his ass was sick. So yeah, I remember that shit, Ty, and we don't talk about that later. - Y'all don't have some episodes. (laughing) - Oh, have we? - Oh, yes. - I put that out and I cut it short. - Yeah. - Thank you. - That's the day we became family. - Yeah. - You still did. - Yeah. - Yeah, I shot out once again and like I said about this time. If I tell you that a duck can pull a truck, just shut up and hook the fuck up. Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. - Peace. (laughing) - Peace. - Peace. - Peace.