On this episode, Chris & Koi call some friends to find out what should change when you get a girl and what shouldn’t change.
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Lifestyle Change
- Cheers. - How many pictures are on yelp? You pull up all these pictures and you're like, oh, that's the dessert you're eating? All right, stop. That's the candle? Okay, that's the same camera. I know that. (laughing) And 45 minutes to an hour. - 45 minutes? (car roaring) - Wait, can you run that long? No offense. - I thought you were married. (laughing) - That's what you did? - That was that what you did? - Yeah, for a birthday. - I think I got a more comfortable being alone than a girl, but I'm about to go. - You hold on to think so. (cheering) - First of all, let's thank you for listening to "The Mendo No Podcast." I'm the man of many friends, your host and creator Chris Boone. Here on the podcast, we talk with a bunch of guys. We ask a bunch of women questions over one and copy. (cheering) Whether you're listening to it on Google Play, our radio, Spotify, up a podcast, SoundCloud, Pandora. You downloaded that "Mendo No Podcast" app. I can't thank you on that. Chris Shores, open it as always, but hit me up on Instagram @MendoNo, Twitter @MendoNoOne, shoot me an email, Chris@MendoNo.com. Or hop on the MendoNo.com website and shoot me a message. Koi, my guy, how are we living? - What's going on? - Not much, man, chillin', chillin'. Question of the day as always. What changes in your lifestyle should happen once you have a girlfriend? I guess that will be the question of today. (dramatic music) - 'Cause you can't be doin' the same old things. - No, you can't even though that those same old things which you got. - It could be-- - What got you the whole thing. - It could be big differences. Like, you hang out with this girl, right? And she means something to you. - Yeah. - Obviously you can have sacrifices. - Ah, yeah. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - But at the same time, let's say, your life's goin' good and things are goin' good with her, too. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - So, what I could say, you don't really change much. It is as good to your life, value to your life. - All right, well, like as always, let's call some people up, but let's start out with a guy. (beep) It's called Jack. (beep) (beep) (beep) (beep) (applause) Jack, my guy, how we livin'? - Hey, how we doin'? - Good, man. - Here with Qui-Qui, say what's up to Jack. - Yo. - Hey, what's goin' on there? - What's goin' on there? - How much, man? - Quick question for you, my guy. When you get a girlfriend, why does your lifestyle change? - In a perfect world, it shouldn't. - All right, here you go. - I'm shittin', it shouldn't, it shouldn't, but. - It shouldn't because if that person who loves you, who you are, why do you need to change your lifestyle or your routines that you've been doing for such a long time? - Yeah, bro, but. - Are there sacrifices, though? - Which has, like, we should sacrifice something? - I mean, yeah, a lot of your life is gonna be sacrificial, it's gonna be a sacrifice. - Yeah, boys' night, once a week. I don't see that you could have boys' night every week, like, before. - I think boys' night should be having, you should have one once a week, I think so. - If she knew you for that, and she was cool with that, then yeah, but, like. - Yeah, no, yeah, I mean, Dolly, if I'm with you six out of the seven days a week, I think one, you should. - No, you should, six out of seven, okay. - Like, what, no, I mean, like, I get that boys' night needs to change if there is something that comes precedent over boys' night. We should be able to adjust and accommodate the guys that are in relationships. - You know, I mean, I mean, there's some people, some boys who do understand that, and they say, oh yeah, you know, I've been through that, I'm going through that. But if we're talking about the other individuals who's gonna be part of your life, then they should see who you are. They should see, like, oh, this guy, you know, he does this, he likes to hang out, he likes to go out, or he drinks at a certain date, he can hang that with the boys and things like that. - I mean, like, it's the perfect world, yeah. - You shouldn't, but because they want more attention, they have certain things. Then you do have to change your routine, you do have to change your lifestyle towards them to make them happy and to have the relationship work out. So, I mean, like I said, it shouldn't, but because of the relationship's sake, yeah, you do have to change. - Yeah. - You have to have a certain routine, certain things. - 100%. - Maybe people who, people who say you see a beautiful woman and then if she's a vegan, you know, now you can't be ordering certain foods because, you know, she might be allergic to it or she might like it, things like that. - And she wants to try your food. (laughing) - Just say it, just say it. You gotta do some shit that she's gonna wanna try to. - Yeah, so, I mean, so that's all the things where it does come into play. - I would agree with you, too, because one of my exes from back in the day was vegetarian and I would just order vegetarian dishes. It'd just be easier. - You feel obligated, though? - No, not obligated, but she ain't like a bird, too. So, I mean, it was just cheaper just to get one dish and we split it. But she was always successful. Like, she always wanted to try new things, too. So, let me not even, like, it's not even putting it on her. Like, and, too, it kind of opened up my variety of what I wanted to try and I didn't stick to the same thing, type of thing, either. So, it was cool, too, because we went places and I got to try new things, as well. And, mind you, because she didn't eat a lot and we got to split most of the things. So, it was still like, I was like, you know, the bill was 100 instead of 200, basically. Or, like, 150, 'cause we both drank, so. - Financial, better. - I mean, yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, yeah, because, I mean, you got to realize a vegetarian plate or a vegan plate has a lot more food on it, because it costs less. - That is, yeah, 'cause you opened up not as much as you would with other carbs or other meat and protein as I do that, so. - Yeah. - But, yeah. - Steak and chicken. - Yep, yep, yep, yep. I don't know. - Yeah, but, I mean, I mean, my thing is with the relationship, you know, that's where you're dating to see, you know, hey, does she like what I do here? Does she like, oh, yeah, I do go out drinking or I have a certain habit or if I like playing video games or if I like playing Dungeons and Dragons with my friends and things like that. So, where, hey, this is what I feel comfortable with and this is what I do. If you like it, hey, or like, right now, comic-con, there's people who are here at Comic-Con, you know, out there having a great weekend, things and things like that. And if you're that type of person who goes out there, who does it annually, you know, why should you not do it in the year that you're not your career character, you're a good news star, as all of a sudden there, and you sacrifice it because she doesn't like it a lot, you know, and that's where unity, you know, testing the waters, the eating comes into play. And then when you finally see that, you know, she's that person that you like in everything, then you can enjoy those things together and that makes her happy or introduce her to those things and she's like, hey, I thought this was a dumb and now it's just like, now she likes comic-con, she likes these anime things or so forth. And this is by Teresa, you know, you might not like something that, you know, but she's like, hey, give it a try, you know, see how that turns out. And then you try it out, oh, it's not that bad, you know, just because you saw it on social media thinking you were judging in and then you finally did it yourself. And you gave it a shot. So I think it's fair that, you know, it goes both ways, but I believe that we men have to sacrifice more when it comes to those things, why I don't know. But it's just like to make a relationship work, to make them happy, to make their old workouts. So they are some things that we do have to change. I wish it wasn't a lot, but I want to say a majority of it is we do need to change our lifestyle for the things we do with them to make their relationship work. - Yeah, sir. - That's true. - You sure you want to come to comic-con? - It's really funny. - Yeah, I mean, I mean, you find something else there. - She's supposed to be supportive, yeah. - Yeah, you know, she might not like this sort of thing, but there might be, you know, something a TV show or movie star. There's gonna be movie stars out there. I mean, couple years back, that's when MCU and now say we're gonna be making, you know, the next Marvel movie characters, you might see a movie star or other musicians, things like that out there. So, you know, those are the situations where, hey, you know, come with me. So you feel like it's not a, you know what? Now, a couple months from now, hey, is it cool if I go by myself? No, no, you can't go. Okay, then, you know what? I know in the future it's gonna hurt the relationship later on. I'd rather say, you know what? It's not gonna work out. I'm sorry, but, you know, you don't like this or make it back or play. So, this is just one of these examples. I mean, there's other things where guys, you know, hey, they're drinking or like to hang out or like to party or travel with certain foods. So, yeah, it is difficult for us to try to see if we should maintain our own teams and things like that. But for them, we make that sacrifice and I just hope they see that we make that stuff for us or acknowledge, hey, you know what? She's not doing this anymore. People, I can do it for me. We really cares about them. So, if we're doing it and they don't acknowledge it, then what are we doing? We're hurting ourselves. We're putting our standards lower than what we had before. 'Cause I know for a fact, there's gonna be people out there who love the things we do or certain things or things like that. - Yeah, I'm so excited. - Yeah, man. - No, I agree with you. I appreciate you, my boys always. I'll make sure, later, we gotta link up soon. Have a seat in a minute. - For real quick. - Yeah, man. Yeah, so, I believe that we could come like that. - Yeah, let's figure it out. Later, Jack. - Thanks for the call, gentlemen. - Always, thank you. - Yeah, I have a nice... - Yeah, that's true. A lot of good points, a lot of good points. But now let's ask one. 'Cause contrary to what y'all believe, this is where we'll really get to the meat and potatoes. - The beef, the beef, yeah, like Arby's. (beeping) We have the meats. (laughs) (sighs) - The money a lot, right? (cheering) - What up? (cheering) - Hey, what's going on? - Not much, I'm here with Koi Koi. Koi say what's up, Jess. - What's up, what's up? - Oh, Koi, long time you're talking. - Ah, see, just what I'm talking about. Wow, just what I'm talking about. See? - There's no difference, see? KYP, you know your personal. So I'm talking about going to the question. - Get to the question. - Just ask some quick. You see how well you see? Anyways, all right, whatever. All right, just quick question for you. And you know what? You are actually the best person to ask, too. Should a man's lifestyle change once he gets a girlfriend? - In regards to what exactly? What part of his lifestyle? - I mean, okay, you know what, help a man out. And he says, hey, look, just gotten a relationship with the girl, I really like her. What do you think I should change about myself or change that I've been doing so that way this relationship can last? I'm usually out three or four nights a week with my boys partying. - Yeah, three to four times a week. - I know, right? - Hey, some guys like the party. - That's not happening still. - Taco Tuesday, Friday, brunch on Sunday. You know, I'm just putting it out there. - Football Sundays. - Right? - So I'm confused. - Yeah, so I'm-- - Who are these people? - I'm just saying. Why did you get with them in the first place? - Well, what did their names start with? - No, I'm just saying, like, you got to realize, like, I think a lot of men don't understand that something about their life has to change in order to keep this relationship growing. - Well, I think for sure, the whole going out thing needs to break in. Be chilled out just because the fact that when you're with somebody, I mean, you should take that person and feelings into consideration unless you're dating a twin. Like, if you're dating a female who's like, oh, I like to go out with my girlfriend who's just as much and blah, blah, so like, we're good. Like, then by all means, if that works for you guys. - But they say opposites attract more times than none. - That's true too, but I think if it's an opposite type of situation, I feel like you just have to take that person's feelings into consideration. Some people really don't care if you go out 'cause they're not, like, social butterflies, they don't really care. And then they're also not jealous, but then you have the people that are jealous or who think, oh, well, you're always with your friends, but you don't have time for me. So kind of like a know your audience type of situation, I think. But I think if you're partying too a lot as a dude, why do you want a girlfriend? - See that too. That's disgust before you even become boyfriend and girlfriend. You know what I mean? Like, why would you-- - Right. - If it's bothersome, why would she even agree to the relationship at that point? - No, I don't know. - Yeah, I don't know. I don't know why you would even, I mean, I think some guys are okay doing that. They're used to the Bachelor lifestyle, or even when they say that they want a girlfriend, but then they don't want to change their program, which is fine, but I think you're just at that point used to, like, a single lifestyle. You're not used to checking in with somebody or asking somebody else their feelings on something, or even if they want to be included in something. So you're kind of just better off being by yourself at that point. - I don't know what it was before. - But definitely I think that going out, the going out got to get curtailed, 'cause it's just kind of like, you're setting yourself up for failure. I mean, when you guys go out for the most part, I think you guys are okay, 'cause it's just like, I don't know, you guys have known each other for so long, and the guys that you know, and I don't think you guys really go out for that. Like, oh, I'm trying to catch this new girlfriend or this and that, but I think a lot of guys are on that level, I think they're going out because they're trying to hook up with somebody, right? I mean, unless you're dating, you're just trying to hang out with a bunch of guys all the time. - Man, I'm not saying that, but sometimes we like to go and party with our guys just as much as y'all like to have girls night out. - You said sometimes that's the difference. - Three to four times a week is- - That's a lot, right? That's exactly what you're saying when you're a bachelor. You outside, outside. Like, once a month is reasonable. - Yeah. - Yeah, but I mean, don't you want to like curtail it, especially like, I guess it depends also on the age range. Like, what are we talking here? 'Cause if you're like in your 40s class. - And I know I know 50 year olds that get active, active, active, active, like, maybe outside of that. - I mean, that's fine too, but at one point, you settle down. Are you trying to be like the 60 year old weirdo guy at the club? - Where they going to go to the jazz club? (laughing) - Nah, man, some people like to be outside outside. - What's the mother's sacrifices though? Like, obviously that's at the- - I think you have to take into consideration her activities and what she likes to do, even though you don't like to do it, okay? - Yeah, I mean, definitely again, being considerate of the person. But I think it, the reason I say it's an age group type of thing is because I think when you're younger, you're not, you're just like, this is, I wanna go out today, I wanna go to the beach today, and then I'm gonna go to the club tomorrow 'cause someone's just called me and asked if I wanted to go. And you're not constantly thinking about- - I'm in. - The boyfriend or the girlfriend, like, oh, well, let me talk to her. And where am I gonna be in 10 years? And I think I wanna get married in five. Like, you don't think that way, but I think when you're in your 30s and 40s, like that type of stuff starts to like matter. And then on top of that, who has the energy to be going out for a nice week? I'm still trying to fit around my head around the house. - In your 30s, you can't do that. - Yeah, that's like, I need like a day of recovery after each event, so I don't know. - That's what I'm saying, Tuesday, Friday, Sunday. - What? - Oh, wow. - Outside, outside, outside, outside. - Hey, if you wanna do that, you're on your own, man. - I can't do this, yeah. - And then I think you, like, I don't know, I think you have to look at it long term too, because nothing's gonna last forever again. You said, "Oh, I know guys that are 50 and 60 years old and they're still, okay, that's cool and everything." But at 50 and 60, you better have like a 30 year old girlfriend 'cause you're not gonna have kids with no 50 or six year old lady who's gonna take care of you when you're like 80. What are you doing in 10 years going to do, Denny's by yourself for this early. - Senior menu, see? - Right, like what's going on here? Oh, you got a fake ID, but you don't see your bit, okay. - Wow. - That's bad, that's bad. - I just feel like it's, I don't know, I feel like it's a catch 22 'cause the reason I say that is think about, okay, I can think of two people that we know, okay? Not gonna name, but you might be able to figure it out. But two people that we know who have been in relationships and both are either getting divorced or have gotten divorced. One of them ended up getting divorced because he was still trying to live the 21. I'm about to go party and I'm trying to ball out and I'm trying to pause this girl and that girl. And what did it cost you? You lost your wife, you lost your kid, you lost the house that you were living in and now you're back to the dating game at 40 something years old. Like you're trying to be a Zaddy. What's going on here? What are we doing? - Zaddy with a Z. - What are we doing? - Z or 3D. And then from saying you have the other one who, same thing, but wasn't looking to get divorced and wanted to settle down and just wanted the other half of his relationship, his partner to be on the same page as him. She said, I mean, like it's two different personalities but it's like, well, what's really gonna matter in the end? What are you willing to sacrifice? I mean, you've been in a relationship in the past year too. - And you like, but you like, you've had your moments where you were like, okay, I'm gonna fall back on everything. - Yep. - Because you felt like you needed to put the extra work in in an actual relationship, right? - Okay. - Okay, that's right, 100%. - So what if you, but you've also been the same person that was like, oh, I'm going to freaking Vegas every weekend. - Yeah, two, yeah, two that. - So what makes you feel, so right there, what makes you feel? What is the deciding factor as in, I like this girl and I'm gonna put that effort versus I like this girl, but I'm not really interested in that. - I think it was like-minded qualities. We had conversations of where we saw each other and where we were headed. And at the time-- - Okay, because you're thinking future. - Yeah, at the time, we were both aligned on heading in the same direction. Somewhere in the middle of that kind of-- - Can you not add that direction going to Vegas with? - No, because focus is not there. Like, I can honestly, I can tell you without a doubt, like, this year, this is probably the most I've ever been dialed in. - Okay. - Like, and not even that. Everybody else can see it. Like, I've been locked in, focused. Like, everything is looking, like everything, like, everything as a quality and focus on leveling up standpoint, doubled up and tripled up. - So, yeah, I-- - For sure. - I get it. - But I also think, like, at this point, because you've gone through that, like, you've gone through different phases. - Hell yeah. - And, like, you said, you're super dialed in. - Yeah. - I think now you're kind of like, okay, now I need a balance. Like, I can't fall off all on my shit to make somebody happy. I need to find somebody who's cool with me being super dialed in. - Yep. - And then also making time for them equally. - Yep, yep. - You know what I'm saying? So, it's like, you've already given it up. You've given it up. You've been to where are you, given up nothing, to where you've given up everything. And now, I guarantee you the next one is gonna be that, that sweet spot, where you're gonna just feel like, this is what I'm willing to do, this is what I'm not. - Of course, you call it. - But I think it's also-- - Sweet. - I am. I am, 'cause I think you get to know yourself the older you get. You are, you also kind of figure out what you are willing to tolerate and what you're not. - Yeah. - Yeah. - I am. She's good. - So, mark the calendar coin in a year. We're gonna talk about his relationship. That's the next podcast in a year. - Well, all right, Jen, we gonna let you go. I appreciate you. - Okay, now I want to go. - Yeah. - Yeah. - Bye. - Bye. - Okay, go ahead. - Damn. - I feel like the sacrifices should be discussed before you get into a relationship. - 100%. - Or not discussed, but you already know in your head. - Yeah, this is what I'm gonna-- - What's gonna change? - Yeah, 100%. - You don't even hear what I'm saying. I mean, I mean, you have always told me, it's like that you can't even do it now. Like even you have told me in certain situations and past relationships like, nah, dah, you need to, like you can't be doing that. I've been able to couple times, you're like, hey, dah, dah, dah, dah. Nah, you can't, we ain't doing that. All right, nah, dah, like we, you know, and this is when we was rocking, rocking. We was out every-- - Yeah. - And we was outside, outside. - I just say that, so I look like a good guy. - I mean, we can't do that anyways, what time do you wanna go? Anyways, I'll pick you up. - Oh my God, that's facts. All right, let's call my sister and get out of here. Hold on. - How can you do something like that? Anyways, I'll meet you. - Oh, wait. - Hey. - Hey, what up? - Nothing. - Ah. - I'm here with Corey. - Corey sales up Nina. - Right along, sorry. What's up Nina? - [laughing] - Hi. - That's not that. - All right. - Get on with the question. - We're gonna look that bad. All right, Nina, question is, should a man's lifestyle change once he gets in a relationship? - The fine lifestyle. - He going out three nights a week with the boys. - Three nights? (laughing) You don't even do it with your single, but-- - I know. - You're gonna just say, hey, Corey, hey, Corey, you gotta bring it to the extremes. Like, let me know. Like, give a guy some ideas to what should change when he gets into a relationship with a girl, 'cause you know opposites attract, and nine times I attend a guy necessary. A guy actually meets a woman when he's outside. You know, he's hanging out with his boys, basketball games. You know, he has pickup games. He play on Saturday, gym Monday through Friday. You know, he's working nine to six, gym, come home, eat at 11. Like, how, you know, where should his changes be, I guess? Is my question to you? - I mean, once you get into a relationship, you have to say bye to, you know, if you have a starting lineup, you gotta let that go. - Oh, 100%. I mean, there is no one. You went from, you went from the NBA to tennis doubles. Basically, you and your partner, that's it. - Oh, I mean, I don't know who's going out three nights a week. - I'm just talking about Taco Tuesday. Then you have Friday after work, happy hour, and then you have Sunday, Sunday at brunch. - You guys can invite each other to all those activities. - Oh, yeah, but I'm with my boys. - They could be a week thing instead of a youth thing. But I mean, if it's just with your boys, then-- - How many nights a week should I be doing boys' night in a relationship? Honestly. - Honestly, I think like two times is enough. Three is a bit excessive. - Two times a week? That's a lot, I feel like. - Oh, yeah, I'll take that. - Yeah, eight, oh, yeah, eight. - Well, I mean, you guys figure, you know, for basketball, you can go, you know, I mean, there's tons of games. - No, I hear you. - And then if you all want to catch up, you did fine. - I mean, but it also depends on who you're with. - And it has to be planned out, I take it. - Yeah, it definitely has to be planned out. - So I guess, too, what we're saying is the last minute hangouts should be out the window. - No, but I'm different. - Okay. - You know, stuff like that doesn't bother me. I mean, it depends on who you're with, because if you're with someone who's jealous, well, good luck, it's a we all the way. But, I mean, I don't think it should change all that much, but you also have to be mindful. Like, we shouldn't have to tell you, like, oh, okay, you just want to hang out with your boys. What are we gonna do? You know? - Yeah, fam. - Does this like be mindful? - Yeah, that's true. - Yeah, I think, like, two days, it's summer anyways. But just know if you out two days, I'm gonna be out two days, too. - Yeah, yeah, I mean, yeah, you should be outside. - It's fair, it's fair. - Equal rights. - Equal rights, okay, all right. Here we go, Kweil here, already on his bullshit. 26 minutes to the podcast. - I hope she goes out seven times a week, Kweil. - Seven cheeses, Kweil. - Seven's aggressive. - Yeah, seven's aggressive. I even sometimes feel like once a week is kind of aggressive, too, baby. - Really? - I mean, with your boys, like, I guess, you know what, I don't want to say once a week is aggressive, probably 'cause I always hang out with my boys. So, I would think once a week is good, solid. Like, out, out, no, there's a difference. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - I guess a weekly meetup with your boys is fine. Like, once a week. - Yeah. - Now, our age is like, most of our boys are family, so it's not like they can, you know? - Yeah, 100%. So, like, you know, if you guys have that, that's why I always say, like, the monthly meetup, we're all the boys get together. - Yeah. - Everybody can-- - Yeah. - For the quarterly meetup? - Yeah, well, once every four months, that's why-- - No, I think, I think it should be once a month. - Yeah, once a month, it's like four times a year. - Yeah, at men, men. - Yeah. - In men, men. - Yeah, I mean, you guys just have to be very mindful. Like-- - Yes, 100%. - But I think in the beginning, you have to, you know, let each other know your expectations, you know? That's important. - Yeah, 100%. - And then, then you go from there, but it's all about communication, too. We can't always be having, oh, this, and it was unexpected, that's unexpected. - Yeah. - Then at a certain point, it's like, okay, well, you have a calendar in your phone and you're always on your phone, so I should just start adding to the calendar. - Yeah, yeah, that's very true. Got a lock in the calendar. - See? (chuckles) - And now they have apps where you could share your calendar. - Yeah, about that. (laughing) - What day are you, what day are you wondering about? I'll let you know if I'm free enough. - The whole, the whole month? (laughing) - Exactly. - Like, you should be able to like now. We don't have nothing on the books. We outside. - I synced up my location with your calendar and-- - Oh my gosh. - It's a lot of action, a lot of action, a lot of action. - A lot of action, a lot of action, a lot of action. - There you go. - That is what it is. All right, here, we'll let you go. I appreciate you doing the moon and back. - All right, same here. - All right, later. - See you in the weekend. - All right. - Yes. - Later. - I mean, it's, I mean, you're right. Some things have to give, it's a give and take, some things have to go accordingly. - So you're talking about like going out. - That's amazing. - Yeah, going out. I mean, you always have to make room and, you know, and figure out for family too. - Of course. - Because now there's, you know, she's got a family and they, you know, things come up for her side and then you got birthdays and stuff on your side. - Like the Thanksgiving thing. - Thanksgiving, yeah. - And like you said, the vegetarian thing is important too. - Yeah, you gotta talk about it. - Yeah, 100%. - But you're not gonna go out and just sort of like-- - A little lobster. - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, it's not. Medium rare rib eye with, you know, with a lobster on top of it. No, it's going damn well. That sounds crazy. But I mean, it's just the idea and the fact of the matter is like a lot of, a lot of times, a lot of times some guys go into relationships not thinking that their lifestyle's gonna change, where it's like, no, you're adding somebody to your life. Things have to change, like it has to. It's not a will it, it has to. In order to make this situation work, it has to. It's kind of like bringing, like you, you know, buying a dog. You not live in the same lifestyle with a dog. - No, no. - It's in responsibility. - 100%. - And you're trying to make it work with her. - 100%, 100%. - How do you, how do you make it work as a team? It's just you and her going forward, you know? It's not like everything you had in your life before that might not be coming forward. - Yeah. - So you got to realize what's important and what's not. - Yeah, and then you got to choose it. You got to pick it. - Yeah. 100%. (sighs) All right, let's get about it here. 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(laughing) - Everything, bro. - That was what you did? - Yeah. - My birthday went out. - I think a guy is more comfortable being alone than a girl, but I mean, that's the only thing so. (audience cheering) (audience cheering) (audience cheering)