On this episode, Chris & Koi call up some friends to find out if a woman's co-sign matters in a relationship.
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A Woman"s Co-sign
Cheers. (dramatic music) - How many pictures are on yelp? Pull up all these pictures and you're like, oh, that's the dessert you're eating? All right, so, that's the candle. Okay, that's the same careful. (laughing) I know what that is. If 45 minutes do an hour. - 45 minutes? (dramatic music) - Wait, can you run that long? No offense. - That's like, I'm married. (laughing) - Everything, bro. - Damn, that was what you did? - Yeah, for birthday. - I think a guy, the more comfortable being alone that he's gonna grow, but I mean-- - He's the only thing, so. (audience cheering) First of all, I'm just welcome to the Mendo No Podcast. I'm the man of many friends you're hosting, creator Chris Boone, here on the podcast. We talk to a bunch of guys. We ask a bunch of woman questions over wanting cocktails. (audience cheering) Whether you're listening to it on Google Play, our radio, Spotify, Apple Podcast, SoundCloud, Pandora, you've downloaded that Mendo No Podcast app. I cannot thank y'all enough. merch stores open as always, but hit me up on Instagram. @MendoNoTutor @MendoNoOne, shoot me an email, Chris@MendoNo.com, or hop on the MendoNo.com website. Shoot me a message. Koi, my guy, that's how we live in a great man. Question of the day. Think about this. Do you need a woman, AKA, a female friend, a best friend, a sister, a sister in law, a mom. Do you need a female cosign for your relationship as a man? - I don't think it's necessary. You don't need it, but does it help? And you know, there's always gonna be, maybe you have a new girlfriend. - You don't need hands to drive a car, but does it help? - I just say, these are the things you're saying. You don't need to cook with seasoning. - Yeah, if you, listen, if you got a new girl, she's a great girl, there should be no problem getting along with your other females in your life, whether it's your family or your friends, because they're already established good. People in your past, in your current life, they're not going anywhere. - Let me ask you this, because I mean, you of all people know my sister, and we're gonna call her a horse. If someone does not get along, if someone does not get along with my sister, like the girl you bring doesn't get along with my sister. Is it my girl, is it the girl or my sister? - It would probably be something going on with the girl, 'cause your sister gets along with everyone. Super friendly, from initial to-- - Yeah, for real, she hugged everybody. I'm like, hey, wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. - Again, I'm not too fast, I don't know if I like it like this. - I need you to handshake it, I need you to handshake it. - Oh, she only hugs the woman she loves. - But like at the same time, let's say she is a cool girl, and you want things to work out, and then things don't, your friends don't like it. Is it your friends that maybe they just don't like her, or whatever, or is it you-- - I mean, you can be blinded. - Yeah, you can be blinded for sure. That's a thing too, so that's also a factor. That's why I was leaning on, do you need it? - No, you don't, but you should probably know better. You should know what you're getting yourself into, too. - Yeah. - And be open to listen to what everybody says about it. - I agree, all right, well, you already know. Since we talked about her, might as well call her, or she'll not, but I'll say we go. (beeping) - It's just coming to clear. (beeping) - Hey. - Hey, what up? Nothing. - Hey, what's up, Nina? - Hey, Nina, what's going on? - Hey, I'm good, how are you? - Got the regular, hey, okay. Wow, that's what I'm talking about, start talking about. All right, Nina, question of the day. Does a man need a female co-sign on his relationship? The demit, like, okay, well, wait a minute now. - Oh, okay, go ahead. - Yeah, here we are, here we are, here we are. Do you often realize that sometimes we are clouded and in La La Land and we aren't seeing the signs, when we as individuals get into a relationship, and does it help when you have a female's perspective that knows you in and out to say, you know what, I would take my time with this one and make sure this is really what you want. Like, does it help having a female co-sign? - Oh, most definitely, it definitely helps with having a female co-sign, because I mean, as females, we know each other, we know the nonsense that we put people through. - Oh, that nonsense. - That we put people through. - Cool, she said you used the BS. - The nonsense that we put people through. I don't know, I just feel like, I guess more times than none, like it always, like I said, you guys, women are great detectives, women are great allies, you know, you can't go wrong. But let me ask you this. Koi, Nina, I'll ask you both, Nina, I want you to go first. - Which would you rather have, a female co-sign or a gay best friend co-sign? - Ooh. - Female. - Bam, okay, cool. - Yeah, I would rather have a female co-sign. - Really? Okay. - Yeah. - Okay, why? I'm curious now. - Because I just think, you know, it's different perspectives. So, you know, so I mean, as you said, you asked us whether we would have either or. Of course, if I had my choice, I would have both, but it's just a different perspective when you have a woman. And I know, like, some of my friends are, you know, they're probably not happy that they get to say, I told you so, but they're like, I told you so. And they were just, they were spot on at the end of the day. They were spot on, you know. - Let me ask you this. Do you guys go and do recon after we tell you who we're talking to? - Yeah. - Bam. - Cool. - Yeah, why not? - Or their friend, then they will. - I mean, just quiet, recon. I'm talking about what I'm talking about, where I'm talking about PI recon. - Oh, yeah, of course. - I have to recon this quiet, baby. - Right, I'm talking about it. - Oh, get the fuck out of here. - Come get out. - MBGs, the night vision goggles, stakeout. - Oh, most-- - Get this guy out of here. - Definitely. - That's a stakeout. - Go go go go go go. - This guy over here, Nick Bolty over here. - Yeah. - That's a B-L-O-S-T-M-S. (laughing) - That axle, that axle, that axle, Foley. - Yo. - Okay, let me push it a bit further. As a female best friend, if you know a guy is making a mistake, is it your duty to tell him? - It is. - Before his guy best friends. Because I feel like more times than anything, this guy best for $8 as long as you happy. (laughing) - I feel like-- - Right, and I feel like you're a human on one's like, "Nah, nah, nah, nah, we're not doing that today." - Yeah, nah, we're not doing that today. - Yeah, guys don't really get in each other's business. I've seen that, like you guys aren't saying like, "I don't know, my guy, like, you know, I would tread lightly." Guys are like, "Yeah, you could be good, you could, okay, yeah." I mean, you know, when you're not good and you're not, and I'm just like, "No, for a female best friend, we'll be like, "Nah, nah, nah, nah, that's not what we're doing today." Like, wait, you know. - Yeah, man. - We use all sorts of colorful words and might even bot you on the head. - Sure, what are you doing? - I know this relationship is bad for me, but this is the only way to jumpstart my revenge body. - Right. - Yeah, do girls pretend like they like the girl in the beginning and then, I don't wanna say talk shit behind, but maybe pull the guy to his side and tell him what they really feel better? - I don't know if we necessarily pretend because, you know, if it's something new, we will come very, you know, we'll come nice. - Right. - But, and then get to know them and if we don't like them, then, or if something's just off, we're gonna tell you like, "Ooh, you know, something might be a little off, "but you know, just letting you know "that however you take it." And then, when we figure out the feeling, I know I let him know. - See that way, when we figure out the feeling. Now, let me ask, (clears throat) when do you guys immediately know if something's off with the person? Like, I guess my question is, I feel like women have better telltale signs. It's like, okay, she faking on something. Like, some's not right. - A woman who, yes, like a woman best friend, yeah, we tend to have, we do have intuition. Like, mine, I'm learning to really go into my intuition because it is pretty spot on. When I feel something, I feel something for a reason and then, I'm like, you know, I just wait and move, here it comes, but yeah, we do. I mean, if we, honestly, if we really listen to our intuition, we probably wouldn't be in half the relationships that we're in. - So it's like, benefit of the doubt first. And then, why do we do that? Why do we give the benefit of the doubt? - No, I'm saying, I know, but I'm just saying. Well, it's part of being polite when you first meet someone. You're not gonna just be real and stand off, it's gonna be unless you have bitchy friends, which means, are they really good friends, too? - Yeah, yeah, no, 100%. - Right. - But also, you have to... - Because we always do, send us a doubt. - You also have to factor in, the girl is nervous. She's meeting your group of people, you know? She's not, she might not be comfortable opening up to certain things in the beginning. - Yeah, true, I mean. - A thousand percent. But I feel like, do you guys get nervous meeting the girlfriend friend? - I don't think guys get nervous. Maybe a little bit more annoyed that they have to do it or will do it, you know? - Damn, you think it's annoying? - I guess, I mean, it's annoying. - Like, does a new girl ever meet your girlfriends or your family or whatever and say, gosh, I'm dreading this, that's annoying, you know? Like, I feel like they would be happy or more inclined to meet than a guy would meet her friends. That's a general speaking, I don't know, I mean... How do you feel when you meet a new girl and she's like, hey, come hang out with my friends? Obviously you... - I mean, yeah. - Oh, sorry, I was asking Chris, so let's... - Oh, no, no, no, I know, I would be sorry. - You know what? I am more, how do you feel? - Well, I'm a people person, so... - Exactly, you are. - So I like, you know, I guess for me, I'm the guy that can kind of read the room and understand who's who, by like facial tics and gestures and then, how they sit me down and like, okay, all right, this is the detective, okay, this is a girl that, you know, I need to, you know, I can tell no one's told her she's beautiful, you know, I can tell this is girls all about energy, so, you know, you gotta, you know, key phrases and words, I like to pick up on, she's like, oh my gosh, oh. - Plus, like, okay, if a girl meets your female friends, there's no physical threat, you know, but if you meet her and she's got guy friends, you know, there could be a chance they don't like you or whatever, right, obviously you're a big dude, nobody's fucking with you, but I'm just saying, like... - No, no, no, 100%, and I will take it, I'll take it a step further, you know, sometimes they'll meet me, oh shit, okay, this guy's great, this guy's kind of big, and then I'll lean more on, you know, am I laughing with him, are we having a good time, what does he know, is he cool, you know, because a lot of guys are standoffish, you know, I guess we are so lucky to be a part of so many friendships that when we walk into the room, like, we, you know, hey, you know, you know, hey, I brought the bottle, I like that, you take it, you know, so we already, yeah, we're outgoing, we're crowd, you know, we're crowd surfers, get along with any group type of stuff. - 100%, yeah, just, you know. - Right. - I remember Koi when I always tell you this, your brother's wedding, where you commanded the crowd, where everybody was like, damn, this guy should MC win, because he would, you know, and it just goes to the fact that, you know, you can turn it on and turn it off, type of thing, you know. - I got lucky that, I blacked that. - I don't remember anything, that's what it is. - Wow. - All right, Nina, I appreciate you, I'm gonna let you go. I'll see you this weekend. - All right, yes you will, okay bye. - Bye, you're welcome. - Yeah, yeah, you know what, I didn't think about that, but yeah, she does have a bunch of key points where it's not necessary, but it is needed, because of the fact that we'll get it straight forward from a woman, then we would, one of our boys. - 100%, like you said, whatever makes you, like you know me too, I'm never gonna say anything, 'cause the person, you'll figure it out sooner or later, whether they're good or not. - 100%. - You're not gonna decide based on my opinion. - Probably not, probably not. - But yes, your girls in your life will be more honest with you. - Mm, that's a good one, let's call Miss Kay. (phone beeping) (phone beeping) (humming) - I'm caught up one more time, and I think I know. There she is, two, two. (phone beeping) Miss Kay, how are you doing? - I'm gone, how are you? - Good, what are you up to? (crowd cheering) - Oh, just, you know, hanging out. - Love it, love it, oh, man, I gotta text you down off. I can't even say it out here, 'cause I was gonna tell her, because of the snacks my mom got you, Koi, and yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I gotta tell her about that. - Wait, what? - I'll tell you. - I feel so left out right now. - I know, I know. - It's a different podcast. - Yeah, we'll fill you in. - Yeah, I literally gotta tell you, 'cause I thought we were gonna, I thought we were gonna hang out when you came to the city, and-- - I know, I know, I thought. - No, you're totally fine. - In my defense, I didn't see anybody, but my two cousins, and my friend who's getting married, and my other friend who I hadn't seen in two years, which just so happened to be very random, but my cousin was moving to Iowa for chiropractor school, and then my best friend is getting married, and she's type A, and I am very much not type A, and she's like, "Bitch, I am locking you down. "You are not leaving my sight." (laughing) We have wedding planning to do, and I'm like, "Go to Vegas, go to Vegas." - Oh, that's fine, that's good. - So, anyways, I'll text you after, but it's, yeah. - Okay. - What was I gonna say? Oh, I'm here with Koyce, what's up to Ms. Gay? - Oh, hey. (laughing) - Hello. - Question of the day is, does a man need a cosign from a female friend, or a female family member on his choice of partner, because it's come to my attention that women are the only ones that will keep it real kind of in our life, not to say our other friends won't, but, you know, I feel like guys, when we talk about talk to other guys about our relationship, it says, "As long as you're happy, "and I feel like, if, "I feel like if I was dating someone, "and I said, Ms. Gay, what do you think about her?" You would go into a huge, deep dive after we got off the phone, and ran like 300 background checks on that said female, and... - Okay, why do you have to call me out like that? - Oh, well, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I, well, I mean, Koy, love me, because that's Koyce. - You're not doing anything, you're not doing anything. - I always can tell people, that's Koyce. - Like, I tell people, like, a thousand percent, I'm going to stalk your life. Like, if I don't know you, I'm going to stalk your life, but that's just me, I think, as a female being cautious. I get what you're saying as far as, like, seeing if it's, like, getting a real honest opinion from a female about your relationships, is that what you're asking? - Yeah, 100%. - I think if it's done correctly, like, if you're, if you're dating somebody, and you're finally at the point to where you're like, okay, you met my friend, like, I want their honest read on somebody. Yes, I think that's super important, especially, like, just getting to know the person, to have an outsider, give their opinion. However, I feel it's a very fine line to cross, like, to tip toe on, because you also don't want to be in a relationship, and then constantly looking for outside validation of, like, hey, is this good? - Very fun. - Like, you, yourself, didn't know. - I like that, I like that, I like that, that's a very good point. Oh, I like that, I'm with you on that one, okay, okay. - Yeah, like, a thousand percent, yeah, like, hey, I like this, for, like, just meeting somebody, you've been on a few dates, whatever, like, been dating a couple months, so now it's like, okay, meet the friends, yeah, after we do that meeting or whatever, tell me what you think. - Yeah. - And then, it should really only be between those two people after that, I feel. - No, a hundred percent. I just feel like, sometimes, you know, when any relationship you get into, and it's new, we get clouded, we get overzealous, we think we have found our person that we have been searching high and low for. - You know. - Yeah. - I mean, it just, it's just one of those things where you're like, oh man, this, you know, this could be it, yada, yada, yada, and, you know, and in reality. - In reality, they're sleeping with their ex-girlfriend. - The whole time. - I definitely can't say that, but I could cut that out. I mean, I mean, we can't believe this is what it is. - Sorry, guys, it wasn't me. - No, oh, really? Did that really happen? No. - Yeah. - Can I get, wait, wait, wait. And not even that, and I mean, I guess, let me ask you this, what's posted on social in the comments I can read, right? That's fair, right? - I thought we were there. - Like, that's not. - Yes. - Okay, so it was, it was fucking wild. And someone, I'm not gonna say who, but they hopped on, let me try and find this real quick. They hopped on my social media after a post I made, and they kind of, they kind of let it out about, man, they said that she caught her boyfriend sleeping with a pregnant woman, and it was, oh, here it goes, this though, my, okay, I'm gonna read it to you right now. My ex cheated on me with a pregnant girl who was sleeping with men who weren't her baby daddy while she was pregnant. Jesus. - Obviously, if your boyfriend is sleeping with her, unless is her boyfriend, the baby dad? - No. - Okay, so we're not an idiot, you didn't need to say that part, go ahead. Isn't that obvious though, like, I would just try, it would sound confusing. - Yeah, no, so I guess her, she got cheated on by a guy that was sleeping with a pregnant woman, which is kind of crazy, like. - Okay, okay, yes. I think people who like have pregnancy kinks are, they make me uncomfortable, and I'm sorry, I'm not trying to kink shame anybody. Do your thing. But people who are so open about it, my ex-husband, he was like, well, he's a weirdo, but he like, thought any pregnant woman was like, amazing. And I'm like, that's weird. - Like, how pregnant are we talking? - Two months, six, like eight months pregnant. - Oh, wow, that was gonna go, got to it. - Got to it. - Bang on 'em. - Got to, got to, bang on 'em, huh, okay. Wow. - That is weird. - Yeah, I would, I mean, yeah. - So what, she got pregnant, she got cheated on. - It's like, that's the craziest part to me. Like, how do you get cheated? I mean, yeah, I mean, I mean, first of all, if you actually-- - So wait, why would you hooking up with the pregnant chick, though? - Maybe he had a fetish. I mean, why do, that's like asking, why do men cheat? You can't say that. - Really cheat with the uglier girl too, right? - Oh. - Because it's easy. - Because that girl with lower standards isn't gonna force him to get uncomfortable and be a man. They're gonna let him play his game. - Oh, my God. - Am I wrong? - They get a good looking guy. - I mean, maybe, I don't know. I guess it's all situational. I don't wanna, I don't wanna trigger her, trigger her. - Okay, majority of the time that a majority of the time, let's say-- - Okay, let's go. - I'll even be very generous here. - Okay, go ahead, I like that. - 77% of the time, men cheat, it is with somebody who is just there. - Nah, hell no, that's fucking crazy. If I am-- - She is. - Like you said, right? - Yeah, I mean, people cheat down 100%, but-- - There means they're there emotionally for them too. - Yeah, yeah, right time, right place. - It could be anything, it doesn't necessarily have to mean, like, oh, she's hotter, no, just like, there for them. I feel like any time somebody cheats on somebody, it's because they're lacking, instead of being a grown-up and communicating with their significant other, hey, I'm needing this from you, they take the easy way out, and they go and find it from someone else, and now they have a whole messed up situation. - I got a question for you since you seem-- - Oh, God. (laughing) - Ah, I was gonna say emotionally there. - Yeah. - Yeah. - I've done a lot of work emotionally there, like, I've done the work, I've done the stuff out of work. - Okay, okay. - It has therapy. I've done it all. - Okay, I have a question. A lot of guys have asked me, and I have yet to have a podcast on this, but I mean, I definitely should. She, a woman would tell a guy he's not emotionally there. - A man will tell you he's not emotionally there. If you have to repeat it to him, you're seeking validation. You have your own issues. A man will literally not put in the effort, and will literally-- - Well, no, no, no. So he's-- - He doesn't, too. - He's putting in all the effort, but she feels like emotionally, he's not there. Like, tell me your problems. How come you haven't cried? Talk to me, da, da, da, da, da. Like, I don't feel like you're emotionally here. - So-- - Go ahead, Mike. - I think that goes into like a whole broader subject of, like, okay, how he might express his emotions and might be different than how she expresses her emotions, and I think it's just sitting down and figuring it out, like each other's communication style. Like, I'm not a prior at all. - No. - No. - Yeah. - Like, I-- - Damn. - And not very an emotional person. - Let me ask you this. Let me ask you this, 'cause now I'm curious. I, and once again, hey, bringing this up, but you opened up the door. When you got cheated on, when he was going back to his ex and cheating on you, sorry for saying that, you didn't cry at all. - It was literally a him issue, not a me issue. I'm good with it. - Okay. You didn't cry at all? - No, I was like, really, for me, I'm more of like, when the fuck did you have the time to do this? - I didn't say-- - Why am I gonna cry over something that already happened? - Yeah, true. - There's nothing I can do about it. - Yeah, true, 100%. And not only that, why am I gonna cry over somebody who has zero respect for me, or themselves, or this other person? - Oh, shit. - Like, at that point, this person's opinion, anything means nothing to me. - Yeah, that's crazy, though. I've never cheated, but I always try to one up the last girl I've been with, though. Is that crazy? - Oh, 1,000%. Why would you not? - Right. Why, because like, the thing is like, when I'm out, I want, because I always think of the day, like the day I run into, you know, any of the girls I've dated? - I know. - I want her to be like, fuck! This woman, let's go. - I already know that that's happening, though. Whether they are admitting it or not, you and I already know that's already happening without me going and saying anything else. - 100%. - 100%. I just want to, yeah, 100%. - I mean, there's a reason why, when people lose a good thing, they go through multiple things. - Mm, that's a fucking bar. (audience cheering) Can't find me and someone else? That's what name I'm sharing, man. - What? - What? - I say, you can't find me and no one else. Like, I'm, I'm just like, we cut from a different-- - People are crazy, I'm just like, now I'm just like, okay, I'm focusing, like, in the year, me moving, I've gotten 53% of my bachelor's son. - Damn. - And like, yeah. - Nice. - Like, can I ask you how? - Yeah, like, like, I guess that's another question for, you know, a different podcast, but, like, I guess how did you get more locked in and focused? Like, I feel like, you know, I feel like the opposite sex is always, will always be a vice. - I think it, for me, it was looking at the bigger picture, like, I could be sitting here and, like, dating around and, like, trying to find this person, but at the end of the day, it's like, I have to just trust the process and it's so much harder, said than done, but, like, I have to remind myself, like, I have it written on a mirror in my room, like, get your degree, do the damn thing. Because, at the end of the day, like, I want to show something for the big move that I did. - 100%. - That's important to me. - Fuck, all that work to be in the same fucking place. - Exactly, and it was so motivating for me, going back home and seeing everybody doing the same thing. I'm like, wow, this is gross, sorry, sorry people. But it was just, like, all these people are fucking partying and going to the same bars, doing the same damn thing, struggling, but literally doing the same thing. And it's like, we're all getting older. And it's like, I'm sorry, that is not attractive, to just be hanging out of dive bars in our 30s now. - Yeah, I'm with you. - Is it dollar beers and-- - Yeah, wait a minute. - Dollar pool games, though? - Yeah, totally. - I mean, that's okay, every once in a while, these people are eating it every day. - Okay, okay, okay, cool. Cool, you just asked, huh? - More you did it, more you saved. - Oh my God. - But it's just like, it's crazy 'cause it's like, I'm somebody where, like, moving and to get the work done. Like, I found that I was so not mentally stimulated, back home, and like, getting back into something healthy, like school, and having that mental stimulation. I feel helped my mental health overall. The most, they gave me a purpose. Everybody needs a purpose. - That's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's. Man, I mean, I guess you are the right person to call. When, so-- - I just, I know it all. - No, it's getting hot. - Yeah, I know it all, when, when, when, me and Chloe get into a relationship, hey, call Miss Kay, let her run the-- - Kay, yeah, also, by then I'll have my bachelor's in psychiatry, so I got you guys, okay? - Oh, all right, all right, all right, Miss Kay, we all get about here, I appreciate you. - All right, you guys have a good night. - All right, later. - Bye. - Bye. - Hey, I mean, that's what it is. I mean, I, I guess you look at it and you can think about it all you want, but you know that, honestly, you do need a woman's cosign because of the fact that, hey, as long as you have your family, I'm happy for you, right? - Keep the, what do you think relationships are like for a guy, he meets a girl, he likes her, but he has no women, no good women in his life. Maybe he doesn't have a relationship with his mom, no sister, no platonic female friends, like, what do you think it's like? Do you think it's successful, not successful, what? - I mean, that's just going off of your own intuition, trusting your gut because you know what you don't like and then you just stay away from everything you don't like. They say, I was, you know me, I'm watching all these shows and not shows, but people, mentors and psychologists and people talking, and they say you're technically only gonna get 80% of what you're looking for from your, your soul mate, you know? And two, you want someone to grow with you. You either grow-- - Do you think 80 is a fair number or do you wish that that number, that study number-- - I mean, no, because when you look at it, somebody's always leaving you for 20. - Leaving you to try to get the extra 20. - Yeah, but they only get, no, no, they're leaving you for 20. - What do you mean leaving you for 20? - You know how you always say that everybody always takes a step down? It's because when they take that step down, 'cause-- - They're sacrificing-- - They're sacrificing the 80 to get that other 20, but they don't realize, going to get that other 20, you have now lost the 80. - Yes. - Think about it. - Think about it. - I think about it. - At that very moment, but I think-- - I mean, you better hold that 20 in your 20s, it's gonna be allocated differently in your 30s though. Like, you might put a lot of stock in how a girl looks. As you get older, that looks-- - Right, right, right. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. - That looks-- - And then you're balancing it out. - You're balancing it out. - Yeah, with a good head on her or her career. - But as you're looking for that perfect, you know, you're not that perfect, but that person for your life-- - Optimized. - You're optimizing everything else you want and it looks kind of false, middle to the bottom of the bunch. I mean, besides after being attractive, like, you know, I always say, you know, you can-- - Happiness is big percentage of me. - 100%, like that piece. There's a lot of things that come, you know, be my piece like that, like, you know what I'm saying? Be appreciative, like stuff like that come way before you attend, no, no, you can keep that shit. - What do you think of her? Hey, bro, as long as you're happy. - Yeah, you're happy. - You're the dad. - Nah, you-- - Just better for 30 seconds. - Yeah, hell no. - Trust me, what are you doing? - Oh, you know, you know, let's get out of here. Coi, first phone, so don't take everybody for listen. Whether you listen to it on Google Play, I Heart Radio, Spotify, Apple Podcast, SoundCloud, Pandora. You downloaded that Mendo No Podcast app. Again, thank y'all now. My sure is open, as always. Hit me up on Instagram at Mendo No, Twitter at Mendo No 1. Shoot me an email, chris@medono.com or hop on the Mendo No.com website. Shoot me a message. Coi, my guy, we are out. (dramatic music) - How many pictures are on y'all? Pull up all these pictures, and you're like, "Oh, that's the dessert you're eating?" All right, so, that's the candle. Okay, that's the same candle. (laughs) I know that. (laughs) 45 minutes to an hour. - 45 minutes? (dramatic music) - Wait, can you run that long? No offense. - That's like, I'm married. (laughs) (dramatic music) - Yeah, for birthday. - I think a guy, the more comfortable being alone, then he's gonna go, "Well, I'm gonna have to hold 'em." - You think so? - I think. (audience applauding) (cheers and applause)