On This Audio & Video episode, Chris, Koi, & B hop on for your 15 min Break we talk about age GAP!!
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Your 15Min Break! (Age Gap In Dating)
- All right, man, I'm back in it again. You're 15 minute break. I'm here with BB. How we doing my guy? - How are you? - Good. So let me ask you this, and we're bringing it right back on to age. Now, this is my thing. - Okay. - Listen to me here. People have a problem with sharing her boyfriend. - Okay. - Her boyfriend is 30 years different. - 30 years. - In age, maybe 40 years. He's 30, something she's 73, I wanna believe. Koi, check that out with us. - 30. - I wanna say 30 year different. - Current boyfriend, I wanna say 30 year difference. How do you feel about that? In the age of women always dating older. Now it's the guy, and I feel like there's a problem. - I mean, I can't say that there's a problem because you got the reverse side of it. You got older men dating younger women. So what's the problem? I don't see a problem. - I mean, people think, and this is what I'm saying too. Listen here, Koi, I wanna know your thoughts about it. Listen, I feel like being a set of time and time again, it's hard to find a good woman out there nowadays. Yeah. - Very hard. - 3878, by the way. - 3878, 40 years. - 40 years. Okay, okay. Can you be sick and tired of being sick and tired? And just, you know what, she likes me, I'm gonna date her. Who cares about the date? - Exactly. We're having a great time. - It occurs, man. My thing is, you go all so many years of not being able to find that person, right? And that, you know, she found him, he found her. So who cares? 40 a difference or not, you know? Let her live the rest of her life with him and, you know, let her enjoy it. Because she doesn't have a lot of years left in her life anyways, right? - Yeah, I mean, I mean, I ain't looking at it like that. - But if you do look at it that way, you know, she doesn't have a lot of time. So why not let her be at peace with that man and, you know, and let them be who they are? - And he's happy. - Exactly. So it's not like she, he's complaining, or she's complaining. - No, no, no, no. She's happy. - Exactly. - When you come on the TV, they're always happy and get the link, right? - I can't see it again. Now let me ask you this, if you found one older than you? - All right, here we go. (laughing) - You know, I have looked into, you know, my extended, my dating apps to, you know, like a little bit more higher now, you know? Just because after having some conversations with you, you know, I just, you know, just, you never know. - Yeah, I like that. I like that because you never know. You might click with somebody. - Exactly. - She loves all the things you love to do. - And just wants to enjoy time. - Correct, and then what's the other thing I see is like the older women, they are taking care of themselves now, like, right? Because they know they don't have the youth that they had before. So now they're actually hitting the gyms, you know, getting fit. So they all look-- - Oh, they got time. - They got time. - Exactly. - They got time. - So they have their routines now, you know? - Yeah. - They have worked on themselves. So I think-- - Hey, where are you at with this? - First of all. (laughing) When the gap difference is older than you, that's crazy. He's 38. - Wow, okay. - Yeah, he needs to get that way, okay? - Okay. - Second of all, is he only with her because she's shared? Is he anybody? I don't know who he is. - I don't think he's anybody. - I don't think he is. - I don't think he is. - He is not important. - Okay, well, more power in. (laughing) - I mean, does he have to be with her because she's shared? Or could he just enjoy? - I didn't know what his MO is. - What if he-- - Did he just get lucky? - Okay, so the other thing is, is he trying to marry her, right? - That's what I'm saying. - That's the other thing because-- - What if she doesn't want to get married? - Exactly. - Yeah, marriage shouldn't have anything to do with it. - And that's what I see in between them. It's not like he's paying their money or anything or trying to score something from her, right? I don't see that coming from her. - Okay, okay. - You don't have to marry to get in the will? - No? - You don't. - No, no, maybe you don't want to be in the will. - Hey, we don't know. I'm just putting-- - You know, like-- - Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. - That's the beauty of rich people. Rich people can write a will down with anybody. They don't have to be family members. - Yes, yes, yes. - You know, sometimes the family members get thrown away and then it could be the caretaker that gets a billion dollars. - Yeah, I'm saying 100%. - But not even that. She's happy. - They're half so far. - That's what I'm saying. Look, it's all about pursuit of happiness, right? - I like it. - I think she's there. I think she's there, man. - Okay. - So like, just leave him alone. - Let me see if I can call my sister and see what we touch, so she can hop on this. You know, let me get you on here real quick. - Let me get you on here real quick. - She's old, but you know, she's hot. - Yeah, but this is a thing, though, too. Like, I mean, yeah, hot, everything else goes together with it. But you know that she's happy and in love, and I think honestly, that's the biggest thing. - But here's the thing. We are looking there from outside perspective, right? - Uh-huh. - We only see us, oh, sure. - Uh-huh. - And this dude. But we don't know what the aerodynamic of the relationship is. - Right. - So they might have, like, the best relationship just in all vibing together. - True? That's all that matters. - I hear you. Nina? - Yeah. - Oh, okay. Hello? - Can you hear me? - Let me call you right back. - Okay. - Yeah, I'm only hearing one. - Yeah, so I went outside, too. We're gonna write back. No worries. Here we go. - There we go. Hey. - Hey, Nina. Okay, check it out. We're on the podcast. I'm here with Koi, and I'm here with B. - Hey, Nina. - And we won. - Hi. - Hey. - We want to know about Cher and her man. I know you are the tabloid expert, daily news reporter, social media explorer. Nina, tell us, like, what do you think about the whole Cher and her man situation? - I mean, I do feel like people can fall in love at any age. - Yeah. - And I think that what happens is that, you know, there's such a stigma that you have to be a certain age to do things. And she's always been the type of person to not follow it. - Okay, yeah. - I, you know, which I commend her. - Yeah. - So, I mean, she's not hurting anybody. So, honestly, it's really no one's business who she's with, how old they are. But, you know, people always got a lot to say. But, like, they say, if you're not, if someone's not talking about you, then you're not doing your job and you know she stays relevant. - I like it. I like it. I mean, the thing is, like, if Cher wasn't Cher, we wouldn't care. - Absolutely not. - Yeah, we wouldn't care. There was a couple lists, right? - Mm-hmm. - It says he's a musician. - Yeah, we live by the way. - He's a musician. Okay. So, he's part of the industry. So, that makes sense. So, they have probably a lot of commonology. - Right. We wouldn't care. But, I mean, it's just how, like, you know, the influencer air, we didn't know. We didn't know who those people are. - True, right. - And not that, you know what I'm saying? So, it's like, if we don't, well, you know, we don't care. - Yeah. - But, so many other people, you care. Not sure why they do care. Like, I mean, they're not coming in your pockets and saying, you know, pay for X, Y, and Z. But, people do. There's a huge stigma. It's like, as soon as you, as soon as the woman gets a certain age, it's like you're supposed to fall off and die. And she's like, you know, S, everybody, and their rules. I'm going to date, talk, chat, whatever she wants to do with whomever. And it's, and he's of age. It's not like he's, you know, like, yeah. - He's not like 22 or nothing. - Yeah. - Or 80. - He's an adult. You know what I mean? - He's an adult. And he, he gets to choose who he wants to be with too. She's not holding a done to his head or a knife to his back. So it takes to his hangout. - 100%. You can take to it. Okay. So, so you're okay with it. Why? And, you know, some people maybe not okay with it. And that's there's, you know, problem, prerogative. And this and third. But let me ask you this. What do you feel about Robert De Niro having a baby then? - I mean, I don't go ahead of the baby. And he's singing Robert De Niro. - 72. - No, no, no, 78. - 78. - 78. - 78. - 78. - 78. - 78. - 78. - 78. - 78. - 78. - 78. - Yeah. - Yeah. - I mean, okay. Is it fair for the baby? No. However. The baby's going to be taking care of. And that's it. That's just what it is. But it's like they say, even if you, no one's guaranteed seconds of life. - Yeah. - Right. - So whether it's, say he was 50 and, you know, he's bringing in, you know, a child. He was like, oh my God. Are you even going to be able to see your child graduate high school? - Yeah. - You know? - No. - You know? - The bright side is that the kids are going to be taking care of. - 100%. 100%. - 100%. - I mean, no one's complaining about me. - Yeah. - I know exactly. He got 12. So. - Right. - You know, they probably got a billion dollars too. You can do it. - Well, Robert De Niro got probably $2 billion. - Oh, way more than that. - Way more than that. - Way more than that. - It's got generational wealth. - Yeah. - But no, I mean, do I think, let's be honest, our, not every person is. Having kids at that age, but you know, but if they are, I mean, hey, that's what they're doing. - True. - True. - So you see, you have no problem. - Okay. Wait, wait, wait. Now I gotta, now I gotta, now we gotta spice things up with it. - Okay. - What if I came home with a 65 year old? - I'm just saying. I gotta spice things up. - I'm just saying. - I'm saying it's going to be fun. I mean, we are getting hurt. - That would be weird. - I'm using your ARP ARP ARP card. - Yeah, we getting that Denny senior discount. - No, okay. - I get that. - I get that. - Any cap like I'm parking? - Yeah. - That's a good right there. - Front row. - Front row, baby. - Ah, what? - And you get to sit in the front of all concerts with the wheelchair. - Yeah. - The wheelchair accessibility. - I mean, I'm not saying it's going to be the wheelchair. - I'm just saying. - Well, I mean, if you started 65 ventures, you're going to be in a wheelchair. - You don't know that. No, no, no, no. What about that lady? - Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah. - She just graduated from Stanford with a master's. - Yeah. - Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah. - Oh, yeah. - Hey, there's no limitations in age, baby. No limitations. - I mean, if you want to date someone who's on parent age back to her log, it is. - I can only imagine if I walk into my parents' house with a 73-year-old, and they're like about to have all kinds of conversations among each other. - Yeah. - And I'll be the one left out. - Yeah. - I mean, it's, I don't know. I just wanted to see where you're, where it lies. As long as it's not close to home, you're okay, but where we are. - No, it's not that it's not close to home. It's just that, you know, everybody has, I think this day and age, especially now, it's just, it's really different. - It's different. And it's hard. Let me ask you this. - It is. - It's even harder for women now to figure out if you're finally finding a guy that's ready, if he's living the life he says he's living, if he doesn't have four kids and another wife in another town ready. Like, you know, like you ask him, you know, does anybody, you know, does anybody, you know, think you are with them? You know, you got, you got to ask these questions now. You know, does anybody think they're in a relationship with you? - Yeah, so that's the number one question you might have to ask. - I mean. - Instead of dating, instead of dating Gerald, that's 65, he got, you know, he collected on his, uh, his 401k, his 403 beat on the 20 year plan. You know, he, you know, he's collecting social security. He just wants, he just wants to fly you around the world. - No, but I mean, is it hard to, I think, okay. - What? - I feel as though, I can't, so many people are saying, okay, well, you know, especially like now, you know, I'm newly single and whatnot. And so, they're just like, oh, well, no one's like really just going to restaurants, picking up on women. I said, who says that they have to? - I mean, Jeffery could be at the Polo Lounge while you'd air with your home, girls. He buy y'all around a drink and wants to get your number to take you out to, you know, Nobu and Malibu. I mean, are we, are you, you know, Jeffery 73? - Yeah, but, you know, but here's, here's the thing. - I'm still talking about, go ahead. - The, the thing is that so many people have told me, okay, go online. You still got to do the dating after you still. I was like, honestly, I can do whatever I want to do. - True. - And I do understand that men might not be coming up to women due to all kinds of things which I do not fault them for. But there's nothing wrong with me saying hi and chatting it up. - No. - I, I'm the one, you know, and so I think that's what happens because I've been told like, oh, well, like my friends, when we, when we go out, we're out with the fellas, we're not really hitting up on women. Okay, but then you're going to go back home. So all these women you've seen, you're going to go back home and then you're going to go on your dating apps. Do you find someone versus just talking to them in person? - Yeah. No, I agree with you. - I agree with you. - You know what, that's the route. - Go ahead. - If that's the route, people are going that, that's where they're going. But the thing is that that's not what you need to tell me. - True. - I'm not going to sit there because there's a lot of scamming going around because now people are using people. Now people are using VPN and all that. - Yep. - And let me tell you, I don't have time to do that, but you can get scammed in person as well. And the thing is that I'm very fortunate to have girlfriends do not think I cannot get all that information without asking. - Man, man. That's true. - All I need is a first and last name. Don't let me look at your eyes. - The last name. - And eye color and eye color is a wrap. She, they got a picture of you walking. - There's an ID. Are you kidding me? Like, another day. - The ID just to see if he's really who you are. - Yeah, boy. - And then boom. Get your, get your name. - Boy. - Got you. - Got you. - You don't think that it's 5.2 seconds? My friend already had, oh my God, they already have that information. - Yeah. - But it's those that, I mean, not everybody has friends like me. - That's what you're saying. - I mean, we're going to let you go. We only got 15 minutes. We're wrapping it up on a break and I thank you so much. - You're welcome. - Bye. - Bye. - All right. - I'm in. So I take it, you're, you're, you're down with the, you know, you're, you're, you're down with catching a vibe. - It is. - And enjoying the time. - Right. I think we're at age that who cares. - Huh? - Right. - Which is so many things happening in this world. Some shitty stuff happening. So look, if you're a happy man, just go for it. Who cares? Fuck all the noises. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. - I like it. - That's our 15 minutes break. - All right.