V1 Church - Father's Day | Breaking The Cycle | Pastor Julie Signorelli

Duration: 50m
Broadcast on: 21 Jun 2026
Audio Format: other

Every father leaves an inheritance. The question is: will it be a wound, or will it be a blessing?

In this deeply personal and powerful message, Pastor Julie Signorelli explores the generational impact of the father wound through the lives of Laban, Jacob, and Joseph. She reveals how pain that goes unhealed can quietly travel from one generation to the next—showing up as anger, control, fear, rejection, silence, and broken relationships.

Drawing from her own journey of losing her father, walking alongside a husband who carried deep father wounds, and discovering the power of healing in marriage, Pastor Julie delivers a message not only to fathers, but to every man, woman, son, and daughter who has experienced the effects of generational pain.

This message addresses:

Why what fathers feel affects the entire home
How unhealed wounds become generational patterns
The difference between carrying a wound and breaking a cycle
Why anger is often a symptom of a deeper pain
How women can create an environment that encourages men to heal and follow God
Why men must stop suffering in silence and allow the Holy Spirit to restore what has been broken

Laban passed down control. Jacob passed down wounds and favoritism. But Joseph chose something different. He refused to pass down what was done to him and instead released healing, forgiveness, and blessing into the next generation.

You may have inherited a wound—but you do not have to pass it on.

This message is a call for men to rise, for families to heal, and for a new generation to be marked not by pain, but by the freedom found in Jesus Christ.

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(upbeat music) - I want you to lean into this word with your heart. And I really feel like in the next 30 or so minutes that God is going to do a work in you. And this isn't just for the fathers, although that is who I wrote it for. 'Cause not every man here is a father, but this is for the men of this church. And if you're a lady in here today, a girly pop, and you're at this service, this word is also for you because I have a responsibility as the pastor of this church to disciple women who honor men. Cancel me, okay?

But not this week, 'cause it's a little stressful. Next week, it's fine. But I lost my dad in 2018, just shortly after we planted our church, me and him were very close. I had a great dad, I had the best dad. In fact, I'm wearing his watch today just to honor him, and he's just the best. And if I talk anymore, I'll cry, but just know he's the goat. And we're grateful for him, and I'm grateful for his life and his legacy of faith. I've preached about him a whole lot, and so if you wanna hear that, you can lean into those other sermons. And then I'm married to a man who had a broken relationship with his father, a really a non-existent one, to be honest, and even the one that they had for the short time they had it was filled with abuse, neglect, and just a non-existent, what do they call it? Complicated.

And I like to think of Mike and I on Father's Day, how many ever seen the movie Forrest Gump? Okay, you know that scene when he's in the war, and he's carrying Lieutenant Dan, right? Are you tracking with me? And he's traumatized, and Lieutenant Dan doesn't have any limbs, that's me and Mike and Father's Day. And I don't know which one's which, but me and him have learned in our years of marriage over the last, however many years without a dad, and learning about that father wound after the loss of my own father, and getting new empathy, and getting new revelation about how I interact with him as a spouse, it's quiet.

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