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Stock Shot Secrets

83. How To Get Out Of Your Own Way And Play Your Best: Part 2

Broadcast on:
21 Jun 2024

In this highly anticipated follow-up episode of "Stock Shot Secrets," host Kyle Morris dives deep into the intricacies of mastering the mental and emotional aspects of golf to elevate one's game. Morris covers everything from setting realistic expectations and the necessity of practice, to handling emotions on the course, and specific techniques for managing pressure and self-talk.

### Setting Realistic Expectations and the Need for Practice


Kyle Morris begins the episode by addressing the often-overlooked importance of setting realistic expectations. He highlights that many golfers set themselves up for disappointment by having unrealistic goals without putting in the necessary practice. Morris asserts that making solid contact with the golf ball should be the primary focus before working on other aspects of the game, as it lays the foundation for a reliable stock shot.


### Personalized Coaching Programs


Understanding that every player’s journey is unique, Morris introduces listeners to the personalized coaching program available through Stock Shot Secrets. By joining stockshotclub.com, listeners can take advantage of a free 7-day trial to experience personalized coaching and community support, which can be a game-changer in their golfing journey.


### Emotional Management on the Course


Morris delves into the critical role of emotional management in golf performance. He advises that it is perfectly normal to feel emotions after a bad shot, but the key is to quickly move on and maintain optimism. By allowing oneself to feel emotions without dwelling on them, golfers can stay focused and professional, thus minimizing the impact of a single poor shot on their overall game.


### Pressure Management Techniques


To handle the pressure, especially on the first tee, Morris shares some personal techniques. These include deep breathing exercises and creating a routine that overlaps with playing partners. He emphasizes that being in a relaxed state of mind can significantly improve performance, aiding golfers in making better, more confident swings.


### The Moment of Impact and the Think Box vs. Play Box


One of the most insightful segments of the episode revolves around the "moment of impact." Morris explains the crucial difference between the "think box" and the "play box," two mental states that every golfer must navigate. The think box is where strategy and planning occur, whereas the play box is where execution happens. By separating these two phases and focusing fully on the play box during the swing, golfers can improve their performance at the moment of impact.


### Managing Goals and Expectations for New Golfers


For new golfers, Morris offers invaluable advice on managing goals and expectations. He stresses the importance of seeking guidance and joining a supportive golf community, as these steps can significantly accelerate improvement and make the learning process more enjoyable.


### Self-Talk and Its Impact on Performance


Self-talk can either be a golfer's best friend or worst enemy. Morris discusses how negative self-talk can perpetuate negative memories and self-perceptions, dramatically affecting performance. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing these negative thoughts. By replacing negative self-talk with positive affirmations, golfers can create a more supportive internal dialogue that fosters confidence and focus.


### Expanding the Pot of Skill


Using an engaging analogy, Morris explains how the "pot" of skill needs to be expanded for golfers to reach their maximum potential. He underscores the importance of continuous skill improvement while also focusing on mental and emotional management. By expanding their skill set and honing their mental game, golfers can navigate challenges more effectively and perform at a higher level.


### Off-Season Skill Improvement and In-Season Focus


Morris advises that golfers should focus on expanding their skills during the off-season and shift their attention to mental and emotional aspects during the playing season. This balanced approach ensures continuous improvement and optimal performance when it matters most.


### Observing Grant Waite's Swing


To illustrate his points, Morris shares a personal story about observing professional golfer Grant Waite’s swing. Despite his excellent swing mechanics, Waite struggled with timing and tension issues, highlighting that even the best technical skills require mental polish for consistent performance.


### Senses and Presence in Golf


Another crucial aspect of golf performance discussed in the episode is the focus on senses and being present during the game. Morris advocates for concentrating on sensory experiences rather than reciting technical instructions during play. This approach helps golfers stay grounded and focused, enhancing their in-the-moment performance.


### Guidance, Coaching, and Self-Reflection


Morris encourages listeners to seek guidance and coaching to improve their game. He believes that self-reflection and positive self-talk are indispensable tools in a golfer’s arsenal, aiding in both technical and emotional development. Extended support and personalized guidance are available through the Stock Shot Club and its VIP program, which Morris enthusiastically promotes.


### Holistic Approach to Golf


Morris emphasizes a holistic approach to golf, addressing not just technical skills but also mental and strategic aspects. He shares his regret about not having this level of comprehensive guidance earlier in his career and encourages listeners to take advantage of the resources available.


### Course Management and Nutrition


Another critical element discussed is the importance of course management and its impact on performance. Morris touches on how nutrition and energy levels play a significant role, advocating for variability and experimentation in practice to discover what works best for each individual.


### Mental States, Intention, and Mindfulness


Morris stresses the importance of mental states, intention, and mindfulness in golf. He suggests that comfort and relaxation play a crucial role in performance, rather than an overemphasis on swing changes. By maintaining a relaxed state and clear intention, golfers can enhance their performance without unnecessary tension.


### Timing Pre-Shot Routines and Solo Practice


The episode also delves into practical strategies for timing pre-shot routines and solo practice methods. Drawing references from Scott Fawcett’s decade program and Tiger Woods' routine at the US Open, Morris offers tips on self-monitoring through video recordings and practicing with a defined routine. He emphasizes the importance of specific play box sensations and commitment to each shot.


### Adjusting Yardage and Swing Tempo


Morris offers practical advice on adjusting yardage without changing swing tempo. He suggests using hand arc or club selection based on lie and distance to the flag, ensuring that golfers can make precise and confident shots under varying conditions.


### Closing Thoughts


In closing, Kyle Morris reiterates the value of a holistic approach to golf, integrating technical skills with mental and emotional management. He encourages the audience to participate actively, join the Stock Shot Club, and seek personalized coaching to navigate the complexities of the game effectively. By doing so, golfers can get out of their own way and play their best, paving the path for continuous improvement and joyful golfing experiences.


Listeners are encouraged to reach out with questions and share their experiences, fostering a supportive community dedicated to the art and science of golf.


00:00 Identify negative self-talk, it affects memory.

06:36 Improve self-talk, expand skills, and perform.

09:02 Golf swing off due to timing and tension.

12:38 Golfer emphasizes the importance of varied practice.

16:49 Embrace guidance for personal and professional growth.

20:59 Build confidence and reach full potential with resources.

22:17 Prioritize well-being for ultimate potential success.

25:53 Improving performance requires routine, focus, and strategy.

30:18 Shorten hand length to adjust distance on green.

34:19 Mental and physical preparation before golf tournament.

38:16 Mental focus crucial for sports performance.

41:56 Free 7-day access to personalized stock shot guidance.


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