As the sun rises over the fairways, hosts Lesley and Kyle Morris welcome listeners to another episode of "Tales Of The Tour," a podcast that brings the vivid experience of life on the professional golf circuit to the airwaves. This time, in TOTT Episode 04, the married couple delves into their treasury of memories, from the joys and mishaps of tour life to the mental rigors of the game.
Settling in for an engaging talk, the two begin by reminiscing about their time in Hopkinsville. They fondly recall the generosity of their host family, who opened their colonial home to them and shared the rustic charm of a nearby party barn. Yet, despite the warmth of human hospitality, they couldn't escape the relentless buzzing of gnats that plagued the area.
Kyle takes a moment to recount his time on the green, sharing tales from a successful Hooters tournament stint that was highlighted by a serene display of skill. Pride surfaces in his voice as he narrates conducting a clinic for young aspiring golfers, passing along the pearls of wisdom gathered in his career. There's a laugh in the air as he talks about battling more than just opponents, but also the elements themselves—touching on the topic of mental resilience in fighting through adverse weather on the course.
It's Lesley's turn to shine, sharing her journey in learning the ropes of being a caddy. With a mix of levity and profundity, she speaks of her role in offering support, guidance, and maybe the occasional snack to Kyle during tournaments. Their chemistry is palpable as they reflect on Lesley's valuable advice and Kyle's mental game—emphasizing the important role of self-talk when navigating the psychological landscapes of professional golf.
Indeed, Kyle admits to the solitude of the tour, not having a team or specific coaches to lean on. His candidness about the importance—and challenge—of maintaining positive self-dialogue exposes the intense personal demands of the game.
The conversation seamlessly transitions to the early tour days, painting a vivid picture of life as a newlywed couple in the nomadic confines of hotel rooms. They share the struggles, both financial and logistical, of being young and broke in places like Newport Beach, California, not to mention their encounters with host families and the obstacles they faced as a married couple seeking hospitality.
A chuckle is shared as they recall the crab boil and poker nights following the missed cut at the Pearland Open, a bittersweet memory that highlights the camaraderie and community found even in moments of professional disappointment.
Kyle takes listeners on a verbal tour of Lake Chavita, scene of a grueling Big East championship, painting the course with words that evoke its natural challenges, from the swarming gnats to the lurking fire ants and even prehistoric birds, reminders of golf's perpetual battle against nature.
Staying true to the series's depth, the pair don't shy away from the darker times, such as Kyle's repeated battles with the flu during Q School. The conversation echoes with the haunting pressures of financial strain and cutthroat competition, a sobering reality check to the often glamorized notion of tour life.
Listeners are invited into the couple's past as Lesley shares the poignant shift in their life narrative, moving from Kyle's early career as a chef to traversing the country as a dedicated professional caddy. These stories paint a portrait of adaptability, commitment, and the stuff real relationships are built on.
Bringing energy back to the table, Lesley and Kyle discuss their contrasting approaches to the game. Kyle admits to his battles with slow play and overthinking on the tour—challenges that are relatable to golfers at every level. They laugh over laid-back moments, moments of humor that serve as mental breaks from the intensity of competition, like distracting themselves with "Saved by the Bell" trivia.
Nostalgia peaks as they talk about their hosts in Elgin, the Gregers, whose former basketball careers led to an introduction to Skyline chili. The hosts tie this memory to anticipation for their next adventure, Hue school, showcasing the meandering path of life on the tour.
The episode takes an enlightening turn as the duo shares Baki's story. Baki's impactful journey from starting the beloved spirits brand Grey Goose to funding a golf tour sets an inspiring tone, encapsulating the essence of passion on and off the green.
As the conversation winds down, the couple offers their insights on the challenges of golfing in the South. Kyle gets personal about his struggles with Bermuda grass, crediting his friend Mitch for invaluable chipping advice. Lesley and Kyle then leave listeners with a light-hearted glimpse behind the scenes, including amusing anecdotes with rules officials.
Before signing off, Kyle opens up about the nuances of perfecting his swing and coping with the frustration of golf's intricacies. Together, they ponder the gap between possessing a good swing and the ability to play under pressure—a mental tug-of-war that many athletes know all too well.
00:00 Podcast explores life on professional golf tour.
06:05 Demonstrates how to use dryer sheet as hat accessory.
06:48 Admired PGA Tour instructor, hard work pays.
11:51 Discussing Kyle's wife's spending habits and impact.
14:13 Midwest golf technique for handling grass challenges.
19:09 Begging for Jeff to put me on.
19:50 Challenges led to learning stock shot secrets.
23:24 Top lawyers or take bar exam again.
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